Thursday, 20 March 2014

LET IT GO ( THE BATTLE IS THE LORD'S )

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2014!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"

Wednesday, 19 March 2014

GENTLE POINTERS THAT HIGHLIGHT DEATH OF A RELATIONSHIP

1. THE LINE IS DEAD
From anonymous
●When a person is excited about you, they want to communicate with you as often as possible. They will call, tweet, text, facebook; whatever it takes, just to hear from you and to commune with you.
● When the line from the other end seems dead, something is wrong. Scrutinize your communication. Are you the constant initiator? Do they ever bother? Is your excitement one sided? Value yourself.
You also deserve to be longingly anticipated.
2. THE MISSING FOLLOW UP
●When a person asks you out and goes out with you, they will usually communicate and let you know what a good time they had. If they don't follow up the date with any communication, maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as you did.
●If you are still waiting after a week, two weeks, a month, several months and they don't say anything, they are probably not going to communicate. If you are the only one being superfluous with gratitude about the date, the excitement is lopsided. It seems the pleasure was all yours!
●Ladies, a man who is excited about you will not stay silent for days, weeks and months on end after a date.
He may be a gentleman and may be playing polite but the truth is, he's just not that interested.
●Don't keep checking why he hasn't called you back. Don't nag somebody for feedback. Move on. You will find someone who loves you the way you desire to be loved. Remember, you were not created to be tolerated. Let dignity guard you! Dignity is the awareness that you also deserve honor!
3. THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST
●One undeniable result of passion is pursuit. When you are passionate about something, you create time for it and you prioritize it.
●When a person no longer prioritizes your dates, postpones them for flimsy reasons or seems relieved when something else comes up, they are telling you something.
●When your requests to meet are met with excuses, excuses, excuses like; "I had to work late, I need to do something, my mum sent me to shaggs, I had homework", they are avoiding you.
● A person in love with you cannot get enough of being with you. When you are relegated to the bottom of the priority list the relationship is dying. When you are being endured, it is a bad sign. Don't insist, read the signs.
●Maya Angelous said
"when people show you who they really are, believe them".
●Many people who have wasted time waiting for someone, simply ignored the obvious signs that were presented before them.
●If he/she constantly comes late for dates, because they'd rather be doing something else more interesting, it's a burning bush signal to you.
●If they begin to postpone dates, the burning bush is now talking.
If they don't show up for dates and never say a word, the bush is now shouting while running round in circles. Someone is definitely missing the screaming signs.
4. THE THIRD PARTY
●Relationships are for two, but as I read on a flier recently, some people don't know how to count. When there's a third person competing for your loved one, and he/she is allowing it, it's time for a relationship review.
●When your boy/girl friend seems so taken and in awe of another person, it is a red flag. When they would rather do anything for that person but you seem to have to beg, write a petition and a thesis justifying what you are asking for, you are no longer their number one.
 ●You have become a contingency plan and an option.. You were "now showing" but you have been overtaken. Watch out, "coming soon" is round the corner.
●Also, when your loved one is completely unmoved if someone else is interested in you, they are over you. Even God is jealous for His own. When someone doesn't seem to care whether or not a third party has their sights on you, they have removed themselves from that equation.
● It doesn't matter any more to them, whether you go or stay. When he/she would rather be with their buddies rather than you, the relationship is dead.
5. THE CLANDESTINE POSITION
●When a person is sure that they want to spend the rest of their life with you, they introduce you to their close friends and family. They will want you to meet the people that matter to them. Beware of the person who hides you.
Beware of the person who wants to walk with you at night.Who will not be seen with you in public.
Whose family has never heard of you and who keeps downplaying the "meet and greet".
●It is a strong indication that you are not that important to them.
●If you were dating and then suddenly you are the only one introducing them as your boy/girlfriend, something is wrong.
 If they introduce you as their neighbor, friend or prayer partner and seem not to call you girl/boyfriend anymore, they are over you.
●Just to clarify something here; Never assume that you are dating someone.
 It doesn't matter how many dates you have gone for, you have to agree when you are "officially" boyfriend and girl/friend.
If this has happened but the person now struggles to introduce you as such; they are either embarrassed about you or not convinced in their heart about you.
6. THE SLOW IT DOWN PLEA
●Passion can be impatient. When a person is excited about something, they want it now! It doesn't ever seem to happen fast enough. That is why, when the person you are dating begins to talk in terms of slowing things down, they are sending a message. They are easing you off. They want to gently back off from you.
● I'm not talking about a genuine request to figure out whether or not they are ready. I'm talking about someone who just wants more "SPACE" away from you. Don't ask and make it more awkward by asking " Can I call you after space period is over"? Get the message.
●Honorable people are straight forward and honest in a polite and loving way. Unfortunately, not everyone is honorable in relationships. It's a sad thing when you find yourself with someone who doesn't have the backbone to tell you that they don't think the relationship is going anywhere. Someone who strings you along and keeps you frustrated and wondering.
●What is worse, is allowing yourself to be stringed along.
●What is sad is ignoring the signs and insisting that all is well. Do yourself a favor, dis-mount! That horse is long gone.
●Don't get bitter and vindictive. Clarify their position, release them and trust God NEVER to end up in such a situation again. I often say "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
●By God's grace and wisdom, you will find the right and the best person for you.Don't delay the entrance of that person into your life by holding on to the wrong time wasting relationships.
●If you are the person who knows that you are no longer interested, stop stringing someone along. Man up. Be honest and gracious and let them know. Don't waste anybody's time. It is not merciful. It is actually very cruel. I decree that you have wisdom.You will marry well in Jesus name.amen

Monday, 17 March 2014

ISN'T IT STRANGE


Isn't it strange how ksh 1000 seems like such a large amount when we give it as offering, BUT such a small amount when you go shopping?
Isn't it strange how 2hrs seem so long when you're in church BUT how short they seem when you're watching a good movie?
Isn't it strange that you can't find a word to say when you're to make supplication to God, BUT you have no trouble thinking of what to talk to a friend ?
Isn't it strange get late to church,yet we are always so early in our offices as we report to work
Isn't it strange how difficult and boring it is to read one chapter of the bible, BUT how easy it is to read 100 pages of a popular novel or magazine?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants front-row-tickets to concerts, Football House, film house or games, BUT they do whatever is possible to sit at the last row in the Holy gathering (Church or Fellowship)?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants a place in Paradise, BUT they don't want to believe, do or say anything to get there?
Isn't it strange how we send jokes in emails, BBM, whatsApp, Facebook, 2go, Eskimi and they are forwarded right away, BUT when we are going to share messages about God, we think about it twice before we share it with others?*
Isn't it strange that people struggle to give to a church function but pay in advance for a concert that is going to be staged by a popular worldly musician?
Isn't it that someone can afford a mobile phone worhty ksh 10000 but does not have a bible to walk with to church,live alone read in the house?
***IT'S STRANGE, ISN'T IT?***that our mobile phone has taken the place of the bible in our lives.What would happen if we treated the Holy Bible the way we treat our mobile phone?May God help us all.

DO NOT JUDGE So Quickly!!

From Anonymous
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent
surgery.He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's mother going and coming in the hall waiting for the
doctor. On seeing him, the mother yelled: "Why did you take all this time to come?Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't you have
the sense of responsibility? "
The doctor smiled and said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital and
I came the fastest I could after receiving the call..And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work" "Calm down?!
What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the mother angrily.
The doctor smiled again and replied: Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"
"Giving advice when we're not concerned is so easy"
Murmured the mother. The surgery took some hours after
which the doctor went out happy,"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"
And without waiting for the mother's reply he carried on his way running.
"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"
"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about
my son's state" commented the mother when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered, tears coming down her face:
"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we
called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."
Moral:- Never Judge Anyone on your own way. Because You never know how their life is & what they're going through!

LET ME TELL YOU THIS MY DEAR BROTHER

Bro,You can't expect her to be loyal to you while you're being unfaithful to her.
-You can't expect her to be committed to you while you're out there sleeping with other women around,and behind her back.
-You can't expect her to be honest with you while you're lying to her face.
If your cry is,she is unfaithful to me,then my question is,are you faithful to her?
Don't expect her to show you off while you seem to be keeping her as a secret.
You can't expect her to trust you while you're always putting yourself in untrustworthy situations.
You can't expect her not get jealous when you talk to other girls all the time,yet have very little time for her,and rarely do you seat her down to just listen to her concerns as your girlfriend leave alone as your wife
You can't expect her to not get mad at what you do while you're annoyed at every little thing she does.
You can't expect her to care while you're always uncaring to her and her emotional needs
God is our greatest matchmaker and he says evil men and seducers shall grow worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.[2 Timothy 3:13]
My point is,you can't expect fidelity from the one you care for and pretend to love,when you are out there doing every kind of infidelity?You will deceive and she will deceive you and as the bible says,you will grow from worse to worse, deceiving and getting deceived!So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you [Matthew 7:12] .
Marriage and relationships is always a two way thing;and that is a fact of life.Care for your own and you will receive the same care.Have a blessed week

Friday, 14 March 2014

WOMAN OF GOD,YOUR MAN HAS AN EGO,SAFEGUARD IT

From anonymous
I know many women hate hearing the word, ‘ego’ but that is a critical aspect of a man. His ego builds the pride in your man to be responsible, take care of his family and protect it. The greatest responsibility of a woman is to safeguard her man’s ego. If you want to chase him away, keep bruising his ego, if you want him to perform his best in his responsibilities keep affirming him. Men are not necessarily looking for a stunning beautiful woman, but a secure and confident lady who will respect them. Whereas men derive their confidence and self-esteem from their career and achievement his woman remains the single most enhancer of his self-esteem. There is never a middle ground on this; you either have a man who is always enthusiastic to tell you his plans for the family, career, business and other dreams or a timid gentleman. Those men who have been belittled at home either remain quiet at home or become runaway husbands with the bar, office and mistresses being their escape destinations. Just like women want to be valued, pampered, taken out and their feelings understood men love it when their ego is Massaged. Woman of God,here are some points to note down about men and what to do,or not do: 1:AVOID SHOUTING HIM DOWN Many women lie to themselves that by shouting down or speaking their mind at their men they will tow them to line, but in most cases it doesn’t. Just like the way women love it when their men listen to them when they are offloading, men appreciate to be listened to during a conflict resolution moment. You don’t win by shouting him down, you lose him. It helps when you listened to his side of the story even when you think you are right. Don't tear down what he's saying midway! There is no man so insensitive not understand your views when addressed with respect. Shouting your husband\ boyfriend down will most likely bruise his ego, send him to quietness and eventually send him away from your house. Most women love letting out when they are angry, but remember your man is not your door mat to tell all the bad words in your heart. All of us get angry but the difference is what we do with it. If you can’t control your anger learn to hold your words till you have cooled down. The Story of Abigael in 1st Samuel 25 is worthy noting for every woman of God. Verse 36-37 says "When Abigail arrived home, she found that Nabal (the husband) was throwing a big party and was celebrating like a king. He was very drunk, so she didn’t tell him anything about her meeting with David until dawn the next day. In the morning when Nabal was sober, his wife told him what had happened. Abigail like any woman who is concerned about her family must have been angry and infact,very angry, but she waited until when the husband was sober and informed him of what had happened. He got a stroke and in 10 days, he died. Abigail was wise enough to know when to talk to the husband and when to keep silent. 2: BE A GOOD HOST Everyman wants to build a successful family, more so we all want to portray this to friends and family. Besides their ego, men’s confidence is boosted by the ability to bring up a successful marriage. Every man prides in a warm home created by the woman of their dreams. Serving his visitors warmly feeds his pride and earns you extra points. My dear sisters, When his friends and family are around, your man is looking up to you to be a good host. Let him not take his visitors out of your house because you're not interested with his people or visitors. Why should he take his visitors to a hotel to eat when you're a round? Even when you can't cook, be the one to compel them to stay and rush out to buy the snacks for them. Build his confidence by putting your best foot forward in making his visitors comfortable. 3:The biggest mistake a woman can do to a man, is complain about his visitors and worse still, his relatives. Some of this men you are married to or even dating were brought up by the village and they value everyone who made a mark in their life. Yes, some relatives are not good but please, keep your mouth shut and never complain about it unless your life is in danger. Many men know how to deal with every visitor or relatives and be sure, they will always welcome people they know you will be comfortable with. Ask God to give you grace if you have problems with his relatives but don’t shout any down. If you do that,you are literally telling him, I don’t value you 4:Some husbands are good and help in cooking and cleaning utensils in the house but when visitors are in the house, please don't call him to help you cook or clean utensils. He wants to create the impression that he has a lovely responsible woman by his side. If you run him around, that's the genesis of the word Bibi amemkalia (The wife has sat on him). Every man wants a good name out there and when in your house, just know that the relatives and friends are watching your every move and it will translate to a good name out there or a bad one. Proverbs 31:23 says "Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders. Always do your best to make your family comfortable by making your husband have a good name out there. My dear sisters, Your man’s confidence and responsibility is boosted by your affirmation of his ego, respect and encouragement. Develop that attitude and your marriage will soon be in the New-york times as exemplary.You will see people flocking to your home,for the secret of a better marriage. God's desire is that you may build your man up and not tear him down. Do your best to safeguard his ego and your marriage will last. May God help you. Amen.

PRAYER-POINT FOR THE MEN OF GOD


Not all men are evil and many times,we have heard of men who were taken advantage of in a relationship that they thought could go far,only to realize it was no more,and that time,all their investments and dreams were cut short.As a man of God,use this word from the scriptures to pray for yourself this weekend
When writing the book of Ecclesiastes,Solomon Exclaimed ", a seductive woman is a trap more bitter than death. Her passion is a snare, and her soft hands are chains. Those who are pleasing to God will escape her, but sinners will be caught in her snare.
Ecclesiastes 7:26
Man of God,this weekend pray using this word and pray that:
1:You may be found pleasing in the sight of God
2.Ask the Lord to shield you from the snare of the passions some of this evil and seductive women bring in your path to snare you.Tell the Lord to remove you from the presence of such women and ask for his grace and spirit of discernment to run away,when the enemy brings such in your path
3:In-case you have been chained by her soft hands,Pray that God may unchain you from it
4:Pray that God may help you escape the traps that such women are placing in your path.[It's said that most women who get paged out of the will of God,and the guy runs away,often look for a decent guy in church, seduces him to bed and then tells him of a pregnancy that belongs to another man]..Pray that you will never be used by the enemy, and such a trap will never hold water on you.Ask God to protect you
Brethren,iF single and looking for a wife ,pray and pray to God using this word
Seek God using this verse.Let him be aware of your desires to settle down with a Godly woman.
This does not mean that women should not use the same.Turn that verse around and pray for the Lord's guidance and protection from seductive men too.LET PRAY AND PLEASE PRAY.If looking for a wife cover yourself first using this word,before you step out......
God bless you and grant you all you desire in prayer in his great name.amen