When God was creating a woman,he knew she deserves honor,respect and real love from the man who dreams of having her as a wife.
This was not to be demanded,neither was it to be a work of the lady to compel the man to love her.
When Adam saw his Eve,he clearly demonstrated his love to her,in God's hearing.He proclaimed" This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called Woman,because she was taken out of Man.”before herself.Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.[Genesis 2:24-25]
My dear sisters,do you see what Adam did?He saw her,made a proclamation of his undying love to her,then took her as his wife.
Never be the one to open your mouth to tell a man you love him.That is the role of Adam
Later,we hear they were naked and not ashamed.That means they loved each others company.
My question to "some" girls is this,why are so many men ashamed of you,and are not ready to walk with you in broad daylight leave alone introduce you to his people,yet you are frequent night visitors with no ties other than what we all know?
Why spend an entire weekend washing,cleaning,ironing and doing every effort available to make him declare his love to you?
Why struggle to make aman love you?Adam's love to EVE was clear ,and he was not ashamed to make her know how he loves her.
Every woman deserves honor and respect but too bad these days.
Desperation has made so many ladies to loose their due honor and respect.
There's a difference between loving Caring and exchanging pleasantries with a guy and submitting to him as a wife.
Please understand this,Marriage and dating are two different things.
When you make yourself so cheap out of fear of loosing your man and starts giving him the services of a wife, you definitely will still end up loosing out.The man has to open his mouth and publicly declare his love to you before you commit your services.
It's unfortunate that many girls have been dumped after doing alot to compel the men to love them.
This has caused serious emotional trauma to many,when reality sinks in.
Don't be deceived or tricked into believing that kissing you in the presence of his friends,attending social gatherings together and telling everybody on the street that you are his wife Makes you a true wife without the legal commitment.A friend was dumped two months to their wedding.Everyone was aware of it but loh,at the end of the rope it all went sour but unfortunately,three months to the wedding,there thoughts were -"arent we getting married in 3 months?
-You are my wife already
-The parents have already blessed us so why not?
Yes this lie sunk in,got her virginity to a lier and got dumped two months to the wedding?
Don't fall for a guy so easily because he has said to his colleagues,family and all sundry this is my "chic". If you belong to him,let him proclaim and seal that proclamation with a marriage commitment.Until you reach the altar,keep off the sex arena.
Some men in just one week of friendship will boldly tell you that they want to marry you but that statement is not enough reason for you to
Move into his apartment to live with him.
If you do that,it shows your weakness and thus exposing you to being used and later dumped as many have experienced.
Moving in without being legally married only makes you his in-house-mistress.Stop thinking that warming his bed and giving him sex will secure you his heart and his ring.
When he loves you he won't demand for sex.
The conclusion of the matter is this
Never compel a man to love you and never go an extra mile to be a wife when he has not declared it.Adam made it public,and sealed it before God.
As you wait to be seen by the Mr charming, stop acting like a wife when you are not, Uphold your dignity,give your heart and also be alert in your head.Be warned and be wise.God knows I have already warned you as your brother.God bless you
Saturday, 22 March 2014
Thursday, 20 March 2014
DAD VS SON CONVERSE
SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make in an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"
SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
LESSON
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important too.Like taking care of your family and taking time to listen to your kids concerns.May God help you
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make in an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"
SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
LESSON
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important too.Like taking care of your family and taking time to listen to your kids concerns.May God help you
DEAR WIFE,TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOU LOVE HIM
There was a group of women at a seminar on "HOW TO LIVE IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND."
The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’
All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember. The women were then told to take their phones and send the following text: "I love you, sweetheart."
They were then told to exchange phones with their friends and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies.
1.Who is this?
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
3. I love you too.
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
7. ?!?
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
9. Am I dreaming?
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me...
Dear married woman,send the same text and see the reply?You can post the reply here if you don't mind but take care of your marriage.Let your man know you love him.Amen.
The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’
All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember. The women were then told to take their phones and send the following text: "I love you, sweetheart."
They were then told to exchange phones with their friends and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies.
1.Who is this?
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
3. I love you too.
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
7. ?!?
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
9. Am I dreaming?
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me...
Dear married woman,send the same text and see the reply?You can post the reply here if you don't mind but take care of your marriage.Let your man know you love him.Amen.
LET IT GO ( THE BATTLE IS THE LORD'S )
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you
this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2014!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2014!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
Wednesday, 19 March 2014
GENTLE POINTERS THAT HIGHLIGHT DEATH OF A RELATIONSHIP
1. THE LINE IS DEAD
From anonymous
●When a person is excited about you, they want to communicate with you as often as possible. They will call, tweet, text, facebook; whatever it takes, just to hear from you and to commune with you.
● When the line from the other end seems dead, something is wrong. Scrutinize your communication. Are you the constant initiator? Do they ever bother? Is your excitement one sided? Value yourself.
You also deserve to be longingly anticipated.
2. THE MISSING FOLLOW UP
●When a person asks you out and goes out with you, they will usually communicate and let you know what a good time they had. If they don't follow up the date with any communication, maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as you did.
●If you are still waiting after a week, two weeks, a month, several months and they don't say anything, they are probably not going to communicate. If you are the only one being superfluous with gratitude about the date, the excitement is lopsided. It seems the pleasure was all yours!
●Ladies, a man who is excited about you will not stay silent for days, weeks and months on end after a date.
He may be a gentleman and may be playing polite but the truth is, he's just not that interested.
●Don't keep checking why he hasn't called you back. Don't nag somebody for feedback. Move on. You will find someone who loves you the way you desire to be loved. Remember, you were not created to be tolerated. Let dignity guard you! Dignity is the awareness that you also deserve honor!
3. THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST
●One undeniable result of passion is pursuit. When you are passionate about something, you create time for it and you prioritize it.
●When a person no longer prioritizes your dates, postpones them for flimsy reasons or seems relieved when something else comes up, they are telling you something.
●When your requests to meet are met with excuses, excuses, excuses like; "I had to work late, I need to do something, my mum sent me to shaggs, I had homework", they are avoiding you.
● A person in love with you cannot get enough of being with you. When you are relegated to the bottom of the priority list the relationship is dying. When you are being endured, it is a bad sign. Don't insist, read the signs.
●Maya Angelous said
"when people show you who they really are, believe them".
●Many people who have wasted time waiting for someone, simply ignored the obvious signs that were presented before them.
●If he/she constantly comes late for dates, because they'd rather be doing something else more interesting, it's a burning bush signal to you.
●If they begin to postpone dates, the burning bush is now talking.
If they don't show up for dates and never say a word, the bush is now shouting while running round in circles. Someone is definitely missing the screaming signs.
4. THE THIRD PARTY
●Relationships are for two, but as I read on a flier recently, some people don't know how to count. When there's a third person competing for your loved one, and he/she is allowing it, it's time for a relationship review.
●When your boy/girl friend seems so taken and in awe of another person, it is a red flag. When they would rather do anything for that person but you seem to have to beg, write a petition and a thesis justifying what you are asking for, you are no longer their number one.
●You have become a contingency plan and an option.. You were "now showing" but you have been overtaken. Watch out, "coming soon" is round the corner.
●Also, when your loved one is completely unmoved if someone else is interested in you, they are over you. Even God is jealous for His own. When someone doesn't seem to care whether or not a third party has their sights on you, they have removed themselves from that equation.
● It doesn't matter any more to them, whether you go or stay. When he/she would rather be with their buddies rather than you, the relationship is dead.
5. THE CLANDESTINE POSITION
●When a person is sure that they want to spend the rest of their life with you, they introduce you to their close friends and family. They will want you to meet the people that matter to them. Beware of the person who hides you.
Beware of the person who wants to walk with you at night.Who will not be seen with you in public.
Whose family has never heard of you and who keeps downplaying the "meet and greet".
●It is a strong indication that you are not that important to them.
●If you were dating and then suddenly you are the only one introducing them as your boy/girlfriend, something is wrong.
If they introduce you as their neighbor, friend or prayer partner and seem not to call you girl/boyfriend anymore, they are over you.
●Just to clarify something here; Never assume that you are dating someone.
It doesn't matter how many dates you have gone for, you have to agree when you are "officially" boyfriend and girl/friend.
If this has happened but the person now struggles to introduce you as such; they are either embarrassed about you or not convinced in their heart about you.
6. THE SLOW IT DOWN PLEA
●Passion can be impatient. When a person is excited about something, they want it now! It doesn't ever seem to happen fast enough. That is why, when the person you are dating begins to talk in terms of slowing things down, they are sending a message. They are easing you off. They want to gently back off from you.
● I'm not talking about a genuine request to figure out whether or not they are ready. I'm talking about someone who just wants more "SPACE" away from you. Don't ask and make it more awkward by asking " Can I call you after space period is over"? Get the message.
●Honorable people are straight forward and honest in a polite and loving way. Unfortunately, not everyone is honorable in relationships. It's a sad thing when you find yourself with someone who doesn't have the backbone to tell you that they don't think the relationship is going anywhere. Someone who strings you along and keeps you frustrated and wondering.
●What is worse, is allowing yourself to be stringed along.
●What is sad is ignoring the signs and insisting that all is well. Do yourself a favor, dis-mount! That horse is long gone.
●Don't get bitter and vindictive. Clarify their position, release them and trust God NEVER to end up in such a situation again. I often say "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
●By God's grace and wisdom, you will find the right and the best person for you.Don't delay the entrance of that person into your life by holding on to the wrong time wasting relationships.
●If you are the person who knows that you are no longer interested, stop stringing someone along. Man up. Be honest and gracious and let them know. Don't waste anybody's time. It is not merciful. It is actually very cruel. I decree that you have wisdom.You will marry well in Jesus name.amen
From anonymous
●When a person is excited about you, they want to communicate with you as often as possible. They will call, tweet, text, facebook; whatever it takes, just to hear from you and to commune with you.
● When the line from the other end seems dead, something is wrong. Scrutinize your communication. Are you the constant initiator? Do they ever bother? Is your excitement one sided? Value yourself.
You also deserve to be longingly anticipated.
2. THE MISSING FOLLOW UP
●When a person asks you out and goes out with you, they will usually communicate and let you know what a good time they had. If they don't follow up the date with any communication, maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as you did.
●If you are still waiting after a week, two weeks, a month, several months and they don't say anything, they are probably not going to communicate. If you are the only one being superfluous with gratitude about the date, the excitement is lopsided. It seems the pleasure was all yours!
●Ladies, a man who is excited about you will not stay silent for days, weeks and months on end after a date.
He may be a gentleman and may be playing polite but the truth is, he's just not that interested.
●Don't keep checking why he hasn't called you back. Don't nag somebody for feedback. Move on. You will find someone who loves you the way you desire to be loved. Remember, you were not created to be tolerated. Let dignity guard you! Dignity is the awareness that you also deserve honor!
3. THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST
●One undeniable result of passion is pursuit. When you are passionate about something, you create time for it and you prioritize it.
●When a person no longer prioritizes your dates, postpones them for flimsy reasons or seems relieved when something else comes up, they are telling you something.
●When your requests to meet are met with excuses, excuses, excuses like; "I had to work late, I need to do something, my mum sent me to shaggs, I had homework", they are avoiding you.
● A person in love with you cannot get enough of being with you. When you are relegated to the bottom of the priority list the relationship is dying. When you are being endured, it is a bad sign. Don't insist, read the signs.
●Maya Angelous said
"when people show you who they really are, believe them".
●Many people who have wasted time waiting for someone, simply ignored the obvious signs that were presented before them.
●If he/she constantly comes late for dates, because they'd rather be doing something else more interesting, it's a burning bush signal to you.
●If they begin to postpone dates, the burning bush is now talking.
If they don't show up for dates and never say a word, the bush is now shouting while running round in circles. Someone is definitely missing the screaming signs.
4. THE THIRD PARTY
●Relationships are for two, but as I read on a flier recently, some people don't know how to count. When there's a third person competing for your loved one, and he/she is allowing it, it's time for a relationship review.
●When your boy/girl friend seems so taken and in awe of another person, it is a red flag. When they would rather do anything for that person but you seem to have to beg, write a petition and a thesis justifying what you are asking for, you are no longer their number one.
●You have become a contingency plan and an option.. You were "now showing" but you have been overtaken. Watch out, "coming soon" is round the corner.
●Also, when your loved one is completely unmoved if someone else is interested in you, they are over you. Even God is jealous for His own. When someone doesn't seem to care whether or not a third party has their sights on you, they have removed themselves from that equation.
● It doesn't matter any more to them, whether you go or stay. When he/she would rather be with their buddies rather than you, the relationship is dead.
5. THE CLANDESTINE POSITION
●When a person is sure that they want to spend the rest of their life with you, they introduce you to their close friends and family. They will want you to meet the people that matter to them. Beware of the person who hides you.
Beware of the person who wants to walk with you at night.Who will not be seen with you in public.
Whose family has never heard of you and who keeps downplaying the "meet and greet".
●It is a strong indication that you are not that important to them.
●If you were dating and then suddenly you are the only one introducing them as your boy/girlfriend, something is wrong.
If they introduce you as their neighbor, friend or prayer partner and seem not to call you girl/boyfriend anymore, they are over you.
●Just to clarify something here; Never assume that you are dating someone.
It doesn't matter how many dates you have gone for, you have to agree when you are "officially" boyfriend and girl/friend.
If this has happened but the person now struggles to introduce you as such; they are either embarrassed about you or not convinced in their heart about you.
6. THE SLOW IT DOWN PLEA
●Passion can be impatient. When a person is excited about something, they want it now! It doesn't ever seem to happen fast enough. That is why, when the person you are dating begins to talk in terms of slowing things down, they are sending a message. They are easing you off. They want to gently back off from you.
● I'm not talking about a genuine request to figure out whether or not they are ready. I'm talking about someone who just wants more "SPACE" away from you. Don't ask and make it more awkward by asking " Can I call you after space period is over"? Get the message.
●Honorable people are straight forward and honest in a polite and loving way. Unfortunately, not everyone is honorable in relationships. It's a sad thing when you find yourself with someone who doesn't have the backbone to tell you that they don't think the relationship is going anywhere. Someone who strings you along and keeps you frustrated and wondering.
●What is worse, is allowing yourself to be stringed along.
●What is sad is ignoring the signs and insisting that all is well. Do yourself a favor, dis-mount! That horse is long gone.
●Don't get bitter and vindictive. Clarify their position, release them and trust God NEVER to end up in such a situation again. I often say "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
●By God's grace and wisdom, you will find the right and the best person for you.Don't delay the entrance of that person into your life by holding on to the wrong time wasting relationships.
●If you are the person who knows that you are no longer interested, stop stringing someone along. Man up. Be honest and gracious and let them know. Don't waste anybody's time. It is not merciful. It is actually very cruel. I decree that you have wisdom.You will marry well in Jesus name.amen
Monday, 17 March 2014
ISN'T IT STRANGE
Isn't it strange how ksh 1000 seems like such a large amount when we give it as offering, BUT such a small amount when you go shopping?
Isn't it strange how 2hrs seem so long when you're in church BUT how short they seem when you're watching a good movie?
Isn't it strange that you can't find a word to say when you're to make supplication to God, BUT you have no trouble thinking of what to talk to a friend ?
Isn't it strange get late to church,yet we are always so early in our offices as we report to work
Isn't it strange how difficult and boring it is to read one chapter of the bible, BUT how easy it is to read 100 pages of a popular novel or magazine?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants front-row-tickets to concerts, Football House, film house or games, BUT they do whatever is possible to sit at the last row in the Holy gathering (Church or Fellowship)?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants a place in Paradise, BUT they don't want to believe, do or say anything to get there?
Isn't it strange how we send jokes in emails, BBM, whatsApp, Facebook, 2go, Eskimi and they are forwarded right away, BUT when we are going to share messages about God, we think about it twice before we share it with others?*
Isn't it strange that people struggle to give to a church function but pay in advance for a concert that is going to be staged by a popular worldly musician?
Isn't it that someone can afford a mobile phone worhty ksh 10000 but does not have a bible to walk with to church,live alone read in the house?
***IT'S STRANGE, ISN'T IT?***that our mobile phone has taken the place of the bible in our lives.What would happen if we treated the Holy Bible the way we treat our mobile phone?May God help us all.
DO NOT JUDGE So Quickly!!
From Anonymous
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent
surgery.He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's mother going and coming in the hall waiting for the
doctor. On seeing him, the mother yelled: "Why did you take all this time to come?Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't you have
the sense of responsibility? "
The doctor smiled and said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital and
I came the fastest I could after receiving the call..And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work" "Calm down?!
What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the mother angrily.
The doctor smiled again and replied: Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"
"Giving advice when we're not concerned is so easy"
Murmured the mother. The surgery took some hours after
which the doctor went out happy,"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"
And without waiting for the mother's reply he carried on his way running.
"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"
"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about
my son's state" commented the mother when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered, tears coming down her face:
"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we
called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."
Moral:- Never Judge Anyone on your own way. Because You never know how their life is & what they're going through!
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent
surgery.He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's mother going and coming in the hall waiting for the
doctor. On seeing him, the mother yelled: "Why did you take all this time to come?Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't you have
the sense of responsibility? "
The doctor smiled and said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital and
I came the fastest I could after receiving the call..And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work" "Calm down?!
What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the mother angrily.
The doctor smiled again and replied: Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"
"Giving advice when we're not concerned is so easy"
Murmured the mother. The surgery took some hours after
which the doctor went out happy,"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"
And without waiting for the mother's reply he carried on his way running.
"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"
"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about
my son's state" commented the mother when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered, tears coming down her face:
"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we
called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."
Moral:- Never Judge Anyone on your own way. Because You never know how their life is & what they're going through!
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