HAPPY MOTHERS DAY

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home.
He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed:Dear Lord:
I go to work every day and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home.
I want her to know what I go through.So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day.
God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish.
The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman...he arose, cooked breakfast for his mate, awakened the kids,set out their school clothes,fed them breakfast,packed their lunches,drove them to school,came home and picked up the dry cleaning, took it to the cleaners and stopped at the bank to make a deposit, went grocery shopping,
then drove home to put away the groceries.Then it was already 1 PM and he hurried to make the beds,do the laundry, vacuum,dust, sweep and mop the kitchen floor, ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home,set out milk and cookies and got the kids to do their homework.
Then set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing.
At 4:30 he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad,breaded the beef chops and snapped fresh beans for supper.
After supper,he cleaned the kitchen,ran the dishwasher,folded laundry,bathed the kids and put them to bed.
At 9 PM exhausted and, though his daily chores weren't finished, he went to bed where he was expected to make love, which he managed to get through without complaint.
The next morning, he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said: - Lord, I don't know what I was thinking.
I was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay home all day!
Please, Oh! Please, let us trade back.. Amen!'
The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied:
"My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be here to change things back to the way they were. But you'll have to wait nine months, though.You got pregnant last night"
WE LOVE YOU MUMS AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT YOU ENDURE.IT'S NOT LATE THOUGH TO WISH YOU A HAPPY MOTHERS DAY.God bless you

The Humility of Marriage

Excerpt from 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife by Arlene Pellicane (Harvest House Publishers).
The Bible tells us in 1 Peter 5:5 that God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Since marriage is an ideal place to humble yourself regularly, there are countless opportunities to receive God’s grace! Author Poppy Smith remembers a time when she humbled herself before God in desperation. Born in England, Poppy grew up there and in Sri Lanka, Singapore, and Kenya. As a young woman, she was working in Nairobi when a handsome American walked into her church and her life. Poppy says,"I think I was like many women. I was naïve and starry eyed. You fall in love and you just want to get married and have babies. You don’t really give much thought to compatibility issues because you assume you are."
Poppy was 22 when she married that dreamy American. Her husband Jim was 32 and they quickly discovered they were about as incompatible as two people could be. He came from a conservative Christian home where women knew their place and kept house. Poppy grew up in a non-Christian home and had only been a Christian for a few years.
 She was talkative. He was quiet. She had never been to the United States. He had never been to England. They moved to the United States and now Poppy was dealing with a new marriage, a new country, loneliness, regret and anger.
Six months into their marriage, Poppy told Jim that she had made the worst decision of her life and that it was huge mistake that they had gotten married. Even though they were committed Christians, they didn’t know how to get along or how to meet each other’s needs.
"I came to an emotional and spiritual crisis within my third or fourth year of marriage. I felt totally oppressed by my husband’s expectations from his background. I was very lonely. He was gone constantly with his medical residency and he didn’t know how to be empathetic with me.
Within a couple of years I was pleading with God to show me a Biblical way out of my marriage but I couldn’t find incompatibility as a reason.
 I thought I would have an emotional break down because I was so depressed or boiling angry. I just cried out to the Lord and he made it very clear: Poppy, let me change you. Instead of focusing on him and all the things you don’t like about him, Poppy let me work on you.
I had become someone I hated. I never expected to be an angry, bitter, resentful person. The things I would say were so cruel and demeaning. It took me being broken before God. I wanted to please the Lord but I just didn’t know how."
Poppy had a deep desire to honor and obey Christ by loving her husband even though she was miserable in the marriage. When she humbled herself and said Lord change me, she began to see her marriage turn around. That was 45 years ago. Poppy laughs and says they’ve come this far because she stopped trying to change him. Instead she asked God to show her what she needed to change.
Many times God uses our present afflictions to make us humble. That humility can then make a way for hope and happiness.
The Tension of Ethan’s Psalm
My firstborn is named Ethan and he was delighted to find Psalm 89 which was written by “Ethan the Ezrahite.” The Ethan of the Bible begins his beautiful Psalm by rehearsing the attributes of God and blessings of the believer.
The heavens are yours, and yours also the earth; you founded the world and all that is in it (Psalm 89:11).
Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, Lord. They rejoice in your name all day long; they celebrate your righteousness (Psalm 89:15-16).
But then Ethan laments the fact that the king had been defeated in spite of God’s promises.
Indeed, you have turned back the edge of his sword and have not supported him in battle (Psalm 89:43).
How long, Lord? Will you hide yourself forever? How long will your wrath burn like fire? (Psalm 89:46)
Ethan’s psalm depicts the age-old tension between the promises of a faithful God and the harsh realities of everyday life. Think of this Psalm as a wife. You know God has ordained your marriage and provided everything you need for its success, so then why is it so hard to get along sometimes? Maybe you don’t feel like the Lord is supporting you in your marriage. You know intellectually that God reigns over everything but why does he seem to be hiding from you? Why doesn’t he intervene in your marriage? Even with his questions and complaints, Ethan the Ezrahite ends his psalm with praise.
Praise be to the Lord forever! Amen and Amen (Psalm 89:52).
At the end of his venting if you will, Ethan reasserts his praise to God. God is true and good. And as if one Amen (meaning so be it) wasn’t enough, he writes it again. Amen and Amen.
Sometimes you must talk to your soul and encourage yourself in God’s Word. When you choose to praise God, even when you feel abandoned or disappointed as a wife, God will bless you. When you’re facedown in humility and desperation, he will lift you up. 
Play it Loud, Sing it Loud
Sharon Jaynes recalls her first years as a married woman. When their son was little, her husband Steve would call her during the day just to say hi. Anxious to unload on someone, Sharon would start pouring out everything that had gone wrong in the day, even if it was only nine o’clock in the morning! After awhile, Steve hesitated to call. He told her that when she told him every bad thing that had happened, it made him not want to call. Sharon says,"I could have gotten mad about that. I could have stewed over it. But you know he was right. I can choose joy or I can choose to be miserable. Sometimes we need to have a good chat with ourselves. David talked to himself all the time in the psalms. Read the psalms. He often starts out down but then he reminds himself who God is and what God does. Put on praise music, read the psalms, and speak the truth out loud. Play it loud, sing it loud. It will put joy back in your life when you’re feeling down in the dumps."
Before dump on your husband or stew in self-pity, you may want to have a good honest chat with yourself like David did. He asked himself,
Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God (Psalm 42:5).
See how he continues to praise God even when he feels downcast and disturbed? If you humbly ask God for help and praise him for his goodness, he will fill you with hope and lift you up. That’s what I experienced that blah day when I was irritated while chopping up chicken in the kitchen. When you turn to God, he turns everything around.
Today’s Picture
Picture that your home is in a children’s story book and that the sky is filled with phrases between your house and heaven. Those sentences are lifting right up to God and they are words of praise. Imagine that your home is a place of praise to God. Whenever God looks down upon your home, he is pleased with that sweet aroma of praise heavenward.
Today’s Prayer
Lord I praise you that the heavens are Yours and the earth also is Yours. You founded the world and all it contains. My home is yours. I dedicate to you. I praise you for the husband you have given me. I humble myself before You and ask for You to be glorified in my home. I love you and thank you for watching my home closely with Your tender care.AMEN

TOTHE SINGLE LADIES

From Miri Kross
1) You are a QUEEN. You deserve a KING. So why do you keep messing with these JOKERS?!
2) You don’t need to think like A man…you need to think like THE Man. # Jesus
3) Perhaps the reason you keep attracting dogs is because you keep wagging your tail! Stop Wagging it!!
4) It’s hard for the brother to see that inspirational part of you…Why?? your half-naked body is blocking his view!
5) You have a half-naked picture on your profile and then act surprised and offended when brothers step to you sexually…Like really?!
6) Stop sending mixed signals…it only confuses men and no one will be attracted to you.
7) If he doesn’t respect you as his fiancee, what makes you think he will respect you as his wife? # RUN
8) If he’s cheating now, what makes you think#marriage will change that?
9) Why fight over a man? If he’s not willing to fight for you…is he really worth the fight?
10) The Bible never says “girlfriends submit to your boyfriends”. The HUSBAND is the head of the WIFE. If he’s not your husband…he’s not your head!Seal the deal first then submit
11) You need to decide if you want to go home with him tonight…or for life. One usually precludes the other. A real man takes you to the altar first and not his bedroom
12) Why would you settle for anyone’s side dish…? you deserve to be the whole meal!
13) That thin line around the 4th finger on his left hand is NOT a birthmark…he’s married!
14) There ARE good men out there, but no perfect ones. Make sure your “standards” are based on reality.
Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind. [Ecclesiastes 12:13]

WHEN YOU HEAR.............THEN REMIND THEM.....!

1:When you hear a lady say,What can a man tell me,i have no time to be a slave to a man, remind her that Sarah called Abraham Lord and walked 50 feet behind him. 1 Peter 3:6.Genesis 18
2:Oh i can't listen to her thoughts,im a man in my own house and no one needs to tell me what to do?when you hear such men talk,remind them God told Abraham to listen to the voice of his wife and obey all that she says Gen 21:12
3:Doing laundry is none of my work,and what did i marry if i have do do such things?In you hear such a man talk,remind him that Jesus neatly folded his laundry in the tomb,and never lost his God-head. John 20:7
4:Cooking is woman's work?Such men need to know that Jesus cooked breakfast by the sea Jn 21:9
5:When he says "Making the bed is woman's work,remind him that Peter commanded Aeneas to "arise and make your bed" Acts 9:34
6:We are men and "We can not neglect the word of God to serve tables" but do you notice that the apostles appointed 7 MEN to do the same work?Acts 6
7:Whenever he says "If I go to all the trouble of making a mess, the least you can do is clean it up then remind him "If you go to all the trouble of making all the money, the least I can do it spend it!
8:When you hear "Cleaning the house is not my work remind such a man that Jesus cleansed the temple: Jn 2:13-16.
Marriage brethren is all about lending a hand to you partner,whenever need arises.There are specific roles for both genders but not all are defined to belong to one person.Lending a helping hand is what marriage is all about.Have a blessed week friends.Amen

OPEN LETTER TO WHITE MEN...

Dear white men,
You asked us to wear coats under hot sun, we did;
You said we should speak your language and for sure, we have obediently ignored ours for your language's sake
You asked us to always tie a rope around our necks like goats, we have obeyed without questioning.
You asked our ladies to wear dead people's hair instead of the natural hair God gave to them and they have obeyed.
You said our decent girls should wear catapults instead of the conventional pants, they have obeyed.
You asked us to use rubber in order to control our birth rate, we agreed.
Now you want our MEN to sleep with fellow MEN & WOMEN TO SLEEP WITH FELLOW WOMEN,in the name of human rights?
For once,we as Africans want to reject this in totality.
Do you want God to punish us like he did in Sodom and Gomorrah?
That's Nonsense!! We don't agree with you this time!
As proud Africans, we can't watch as you twist our mind again.Never again will you tell us anything and we obey.What you did is enough and we say a huge NO to GAY relationships.
Remember HOMOSEXUALS & LESBIANS will not inherit the kingdom of God.The bible you brought to us teaches us that way.
We can't now believe your opinions,WE WOULD RATHER BELIEVE IN GOD.
Thanks God though for bringing us the bible.That's what is going to shape our lives from today.Bye to your ideas.

WHEN LOVE PANGS BITE YOU,CHANGE IS INEVITABLE

Love changes you. It changes the way you act,your walking style, the way you think, the way you decide on issues.
Love changes your voice,tone,smile,laughter and even your eyesight.
When in love with someone,you never see another except them.Your world revolves around them,they are the world to you and you are the world to them
When love pangs bite you,you don't care the distance,the resources to use,the threat on the way nor cafew announced by the government.
If you were to look at the the spending of our celebrities all over the world,you will realize love takes a great chunk of their wealth compared to their normal spending
Many men,have dared stand in the rains for long,others brushed of traffic lights,as they run to hold the hand of their lover and have a glimpse at their loved one,and hear their voice.
It's when in love that someone's one word brings life in another.
Oh don't worry or care about those who,whenever you call say "Im busy", they don't love you.Love reorganizes and stops every assignment for the sake of the loved
Love is poetic,love is real and many times it goes against your own principles and beliefs.
When in-love with someone,you always want to make them happy,and their happiness makes you happy too.
Oh my dear friend,don't dare love,it's jealous too.It's lethal and it possessive to some extent.Look around for those who were involved with other people's wives\girlfriends,the news is always nerve breaking .Jealousy is always attached to love.
That's why my dear sisters and brothers,you have to monitor and regulate your steps to any married man\women.Love can be jealous and the results are lethal
You don't need to be in the news for the bad reason,because of your untamed desire on someone's lover.Unfriend them if you must,stop commenting on their photos if the wife\man feels unsafe.Stay safe from a jealous spouse\lover
When in love,you you always slow down,bend down,and take every step in your walk.When in love,you are patient to your love,kind to him\her.
I wonder how this world would be,if it were not for love.No-wonder God is love

ESCAPING SEXUAL SIN BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE

By Rev. Marty O'Rourke
OVERCOMING TEMPTATION WILL COST YOUR PRIDE DEARLY
Why are so many strong Christians succumbing to sexual sin? We must remember that we as Christians do not live in a vacuum but in a culture filled with temptations that stir lust. Many people have fallen because they underestimated the power of sexual temptation.
Paul’s first letter to the Church at Corinth has the strongest teaching about sexual sin because Corinth, like our culture, was saturated with sexual temptation.
The Bible declares that God is faithful and no matter what temptation we face, He will provide “a way out so that you can stand up under it” (1 Cor. 10:13).
God’s will for us is to overcome temptation, but it will cost us dearly, especially our pride. The preceding passage (1 Cor 10:12) warns us: “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” God is telling us that the first step in overcoming temptation is to beware of the attitude, “It couldn’t happen to me.”
As the wisdom of Proverbs says, pride sets us up for a fall.
The Rev. Gordon MacDonald, a wonderful pastor and at one time president of InterVarsity Christian Fellowship, shares in his book Rebuilding Your Broken World, about a time when he was asked about how Satan might get him. He answered:
All sorts of ways, I suppose; but I know there's one way he wouldn't get me. “What's that?” He'd never get me in the area of my personal relationships with the Lord. That's one place where I have no doubt that I'm as strong as you can get.
A few years after that conversation my world broke wide open. A chain of seemingly innocent choices became destructive, and it was all my fault.
Choice by choice , each easier to make, each becoming gradually darker, and then my world broke loose -- in the very area I had predicted I was safe -- and my world had to be rebuilt again.
He goes on to quote from My Utmost for His Highest: “An unguarded strength is actually a double weakness.”
HERE IS AMAN OF GOD WITH A GOOD MARRIAGE WHO HAD WRITTEN BOOKS ON FAMILY LIFE AND YET HE FELL INTO ADULTERY!.
Why? BECAUSE HE THOUGHT IT COULDN'T HAPPEN TO HIM AND LEFT THIS PART OF HIS LIFE UGUARDED.
If David, who was “a man after God’s own heart,” Gordon MacDonald, and many other strong men and women of faith yielded to sexual temptation, it could happen to you. God is telling us through these words of Paul -- “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” (1 Cor. 10:12)
Our vulnerability to sin increases when we think it could not happen to us.
Almost all Christians, especially Christian leaders, who have fallen to sexual temptation, would tell you that they did not think it could have happened to them.
1 Corinthians 6:18 warns us, “Flee from sexual immorality.”
It is easy for pride to convince us that we don’t really need to FLEE, and that this instruction is for weaker Christians. We mislead ourselves into thinking that instead of fleeing we can stroll away, looking back once in a while, because we are strong enough to resist or FLIT WITH TEMPTATION. Admitting that we need to flee takes real Christian humility. Remember, overcoming sexual temptation will cost your pride dearly.
BUT SOMEONE MAY ASK,WHEN DO WE NEED TO FLEE?
1: When you find yourself thinking about a “friend, co-worker, ministry partner, counselee” and how much you enjoy being with this person -- FLEE!
2: When you look forward to spending more time with this person, and you make sure you look “ hot” to attract his attention and yet he’s married or just “a friend” that day -- FLEE!
3:If you begin to fantasize about being with this person or knowingly start touching your “friend” in “innocent “ ways -- FLEE!
4: When you become more secretive about your interaction with your “friend” because people like your spouse might “misunderstand” your friendship -- FLEE!
5: If you receive cards, e-mails or presents from this person that you would not want your spouse to see -- FLEE!
6: When you find yourself comparing your spouse in an unfavorable way to your “friend”-- FLEE!
7:If you find you are always talking to someone's wife\husband and he seems interesting and kind to you more than him\her then ---FLEE
My dear brothers and sisters,Anytime we feel we must keep something secret, this would indicate that sin is crouching at your doorsep.
If you are experiencing sexual attraction to someone – or experiencing some other kind of temptation over a few days – go to your spouse or someone you can trust in the Body of Christ and bring the secret out into the light of day, and ask for prayer and accountability.
Satan loves it when we keep secrets in the dark because of shame, fear, or pride – but remember, darkness is overcome by light. Often this alone can break the power of temptation, but it will cost you your pride.
Many are unwilling to sacrifice their pride by admitting their struggle with sin to get the help they need. Rick Warren says:If you’re losing the battle against a persistent bad habit, an addiction, or a temptation, and you're stuck in a repeating cycle of good intention-failure-guilt, you will not get better on your own. You need the help of other people.
Some temptations are only overcome with the help of a partner who prays for you, encourages you, and holds you accountable.
Tragically, too many people – because of family background, and who have experienced sexual abuse, abandonment, or have a long history of struggling with lust – need significant ministry, yet they are unwilling to get help until they are forced to do so after yielding to sin.
There’s a price to pay to overcome temptation and you must give up on pride and your ego,and open up to people whom you think can walk with you to victory over a habitual sin.
Take a moment and consider the much greater price of yielding to temptation. Consider the damage to the cause of Christ, to your family, and to your Christian witness, along with the pain you will cause yourself and the ones you love the most.God has given us everything we need to overcome temptation, but it will cost our pride dearly. I plead with you to consider the even greater cost of yielding to the temptation.
May God help you and me overcome the temptation that come our way and stand out for Christ,no matter what,but if standing for Christ means fleeing, do it with grace my sister and brother!Go as far and further from any foam of temptation. Have a blessed week

NO MAN IS PERFECT

NO MAN IS PERFECT
No one can be PERFECT. Neither You Nor Him, and the two of you will never be perfect. If he's is trying his BEST to make you SMILE and Laugh then his worth it. If he ADMITS to being human and he make MISTAKES, hold onto him and give him the most you CAN.
He may not be thinking about you every-time, but he will give you a
part of him that he knows you could break.
Don't hurt him, don't change him, and don't EXPECT for more than he
can give. Don't analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, DON'T SHOUT at Him when he makes you mad, and miss him when he's not there.
Above all,as long as he is not leading you to sexual immorally,which you must run from,then relax and build the relationship,as you seek God's guidance.
So love the man you have without dwelling on his minor faults because perfect guys don't exist, but there's always one guy that is perfect for
you.

TEN COMMANDMENT FOR SINGLE LADIES!!!

1. Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parents house.
2. Don’t wait for a man before you start living.You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special.
4. Don’t entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. Its not the right way to find a lover.
5. Develop a healthy eating habit. Always take breakfast and avoid sweets.
6. Dress well: impression count. People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you.
7. Don’t use sex as proof of love.If it was so,then prostitutes would be married women as we speak now. Sex is no proof of love, he’ll leave you after the sex.
8. Don’t marry for the money, else you’ll become one of his possessions.
9. Add value to yourself – get a career. Don’t be fooled that a man will solve all your problems
10. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone beautiful better more matured and competent than you...
Above all remember this"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.[prvb 31:30].
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!

TEN COMMANDMENTS TO HUSBANDS

Ten commandments for husbands
The Bible is God's "instruction manual" for happy living. There is no other book on earth that will bring about inner peace and eternal life than the bible. One thing that most men have in common is that they are married.
Unfortunately, because we live in an "amoral" (morally neutral) society, most who enter into marriage have little training. Isn't it bizarre that a doctor trains for 7 years, a teacher 4 but there is virtually no training for becoming a husband. You can't take a course in university that certifies you as a husband...the closest you can come is a "bachelors" degree.
Here are 10 principles from the word of God for husbands .
1:Thou shall not take thy wife for granted, but will honor and respect her as thy equal. (1 Pet 3:7)
Dear Husband, are you treating your wife as an equal and granting her your highest honor? If not God says he will not answer your prayers!
One of the worst things that happened to us in our African cultures is when it exalted men above measure.Our tradition nearly makes a man deputy to God but that is not so.We are all flesh and blood,just as our wives are.They have a duty from God to help us.God made a woman as a helper to man.That means,she needs to know your goals, aspirations, desires, plans for the future,your investments and its returns, and when given a chance to do what God intended her to do,as your helper,you will realize indeed God had man in mind,when he created a woman. Unfortunately,many men have crippled the woman in their lives and would rather not reveal any financial statements,any business deals or anything to their wives .They would rather trust their friends,business partners and relatives,than their wives. If you saw her the best among the many women,and married her,then trust her with all you have too and you will see how powerful your family will grow and glow with the beauty of God's glory,courtesy of her.
2:Thy highest allegiance, except God, shall be to thy wife, not thy relatives or friends. (Gen 2:24)
How often does the husband honor his blood family over his own wife?
Such is a recipe for disaster!
In-law problems are often the result of a husband who allows his mother and father to interfere in his relationship with his wife.
3: Thou shalt frequently tell thy wife how important & valuable she is to thee. (Phil 2:3; Prov 31:10-11)
In the Sleepless in Seattle (movie) Radio commentator asks a man who was missing his dead wife, "Tell me about your wife". "How many hours do you have?" Immediately 3000 single women jammed the radio station switchboard trying to get his number for a date! Why Because he was sincerely praising his wife! Why did they want to date a complete stranger? Because the one thing they knew was that this man possessed the rare quality of praising his female companion. If he did it for his former wife…he would do it for them!
Infact,it's Selfishness that kills a marriage.Whenever a man is consumed with himself more than his wife,thinks he is better than his wife,he will see no need to tell the wife how important she is to him.Husbands, tell your wife how important and valuable she is to you. Watch for the loving smile on her face when you do! The Proverbs writer said, "An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, And he will have no lack of gain."[ Prov 31:10-11]. Notice how the wise husband trusts his wife's judgments and realizes how fortunate he is to have her.
NB:
What every man should know is that God gave women the authority to make important decisions too:
-They are workers in and managers of the home:
-1 Ti 5:14: (Greek: oijkodespotevw "to rule/manage the house")
-Tit 2:5 (Greek: oikodespotes literally, "house ruler")
-A wife's judgment can be better than her husbands: Nabal & Abigail: 1 Sam 25:3,17,25,32
4:Thou shalt hold thy wife's love by the same means that thou won it. (SOS 5:10-16)
Men pursue their future bride with doting ceaseless attention. Once married the husband views marriage as a goal accomplished to add unto other of life's challenges. He then gives his ceaseless doting attention to the job, the boys or anything but his wife. The wife on the other hand, viewed marriage not as a goal met, but as the beginning of a relationship. She viewed his doting attention as a down payment of attentions to come. He viewed it as a means to merely get her to say "I DO".
When this this guy really WON the love of his future wife,he looked good because he groomed his appearance for her. He smelled good, because he regularly bathed and gargled. And he spoke words of "sweetness" to his love. But give many husbands a few years of marriage and they let their appearance and hygiene slip. But worst of all the sweetness towards their wife is gone . The wife proclaims to her friends, "Did he ever change after we said 'I do'!" Guys, if you want the nights to be hot, you best start warming up your wife in the day with words of kindness and if possible, buy your wife flowers on a regular basis.
5:Thou shalt actively establish family discipline with thy wife's help. (2 Timothy 3:15; Ephesians 6:4; Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
Few would argue that the wife is the primary parent involved in the daily task of interacting with the children. But God has placed the father as the head of the household and that means that you must work hard along side your wife in establishing family discipline.
Many fathers leave the majority of the work of raising the kids up to the wife. In child custody cases, the mother almost always get control of the kids, not because she is a better parent, but because she is the one who has been most involved with them. The bible says"And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."Ephesians 6:4 .
You must be directly involved with your children. And then be careful not to "provoke" them to anger, because you have not really taken the time to understand exactly what happened and why. Some fathers alienate their children because they hastily dish out too harsh a punishment because they want to get back to their TV show or reading the paper. To these husbands, children are an interruption imposed upon him by the wife. Sad indeed. Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it. Prov 22:6
6:Thou shalt remember to do all the little things for thy wife when you say you will. (Mt 5:37)
1.Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil." Mt 5:37. Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you? Your wife shouldn't have to get you to sign some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will earn her trust in other areas.
7: Thou shall Keep thine eyes on thy own wife, not thy neighbors. (Prov 5:15-20; Job 31:1; Jer 5:8)
The Proverbs writer says it this way, "Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from your own well... Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love." Prov 5:15-20
-The ultimate sacrifice that a woman makes in child bearing is her figure. And the media is filled with 17 year old models who are not yet graduated high school and never done a hard days work in their life! It's easy to get the attention of such but Job was wise when he said, "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman.?" [Job 31:1]
Unfortunately,to many men, the words of Jeremiah apply, "They were well-fed lusty horses, Each one neighing after his neighbor's wife." [Jer 5:8]
8:Thou shall make every effort to see things from your wife's point of view. (Gen 21:12)
Abraham is a man whose wife actually called him "lord". Sarah had an insight on a personal family matter and Abraham felt that she was wrong. "But God said to Abraham, "Do not be distressed because of the lad [Ishmael]and your maid[hagah]; whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her" [Gen 21:12.]
Dear husband, Did you catch that? God told Abraham to obey his wife! He had not taken the time to see things from her point of view. Husbands and wives often live and think in different worlds. A wise husband will "listen" to his wife before God steps in and forces him to to what his wife has said.Always listen to your wife before God steps in to force you
Live with her in an understanding way since she is a woman" [1 Pe 3:7 ]
9:Thou shall not fail to kiss thy wife every morning. (SOS 8:1)
Do you know why the "kiss and ride" commuter drop off area's are so popular in some western countries? Just ask the wives who drop off their husbands for work.One TV program documented that the wives loved it. Here they had a "legitimate" reason to expect a kiss from their husband every-morning.
Husband, when you leave the house for work, give her a kiss. When you come home, tell her you love her and give her another kiss. Here, in the Song of Solomon, a future wife speaks of her love and desire for a kiss. "If I found you outdoors, I would kiss you; No one would despise me, either." [Sos 8:1]
10:Thou shalt not be stingy with thy wife when it comes to money. (Esther 5:3)
King Ahasuerus was married to Queen Esther. Look how generous he was with his wife! He said to her, "What is troubling you, Queen Esther? And what is your request? Even to half of the kingdom it will be given to you." Esther 5:3
Now in modern marriage law, many might wonder why this man is being praised for giving his wife the half that already belonged to her. However, back then this was an incredible offer of generosity! How many wives have to grovel and beg for a few dollars from their husbands while he lavishly spends on himself.Don't be stingy to the one you chose as your wife,among the 3 billion plus women on planet earth today.Let her not pray to God to touch you before you give her any cash.Make it your personal desire to give her cash even when she has not asked for it. Godly women rarely spend on this outside their home and when you give her the ability to use your cash,it brings returns back to your marriage.
Invest in your marriage.God bless you

MY DEAR SISTERS

If someone is not willing to put a ring on your finger or marry you,DON'T give them the benefits of marriage.

If they think that you are good enough to sleep with,let them first make God smile by thinking that you are good enough to marry,then the sex.

Do not let someone make you sin by making you a mother when

they are not willing to make you a wife.

Girls remember this, having his baby won't make him stay with you .He will still leave when you are a mother to his child.

If I can read a magazine for free, what is the purpose of buying it? That's

why some magazines come with a seal, coz they know that you will really appreciate its value and pay the price first.

Its time to seal off your life, even if you are no longer a virgin you can

still bring back your value and let someone pay off the price first

or else they will just read you and dump you for another one.

This is one of the reason why some people are not getting

married. Fear the Lord and show seal off what needs to be sealed and show your true value.

THE WORLD TELLS YOU…….BUT GOD SAYS

1: The world  tells you, “Who do you think you are? "Isn't this the carpenter's son? Isn't his mother's name Mary, and aren't his brothers James, Joseph, Simon and Judas? but God says  "This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well-pleased. [Matthew 13:55,Matthew 3:17 ]

2: The world  tells you, “No one knows when life begins" and "the child is a blob of tissue and killing a fetus is morally different from killing a toddler, but God says “thou shall not murder! Exodus 20:13

 3:The world system says, “There is nothing wrong with two consenting adults,who are not married finding pleasure in each other’s bodies.” But God says, “Your body was not created for sexual immorality. It does not belong to you; it belongs to Me.” 1 Corinthians 6:19

4:The world will say” As long us it makes you happy, do it, but God says whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.[1 Corinthians 10:31]

5: The world  tells you,oh, you are poor and the least in your father’s house but God says “you mighty man of valor ,you shall save Israel.[Judges 6]

6: The world  tells you “this disease is genetical, it’s in your family blood,you can’t do anything about it, but God says “I’m Jehovah-Rapha - "the Lord that healeth thee" (Ex. 15:25-26)

7:The world will say” Can anything good come out of  Bethlehem, Nazareth, but God says, you Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times."

8: The world tells you, “don’t dare, it’s too late?  But God says “even when it’s four days late, I’m still on time.[John 11]

9: The world tells you,  “ I hate everything about you?  But God says “I love you with an everlasting love [Jeremiah 31:3]

10: The world tells you “why not, if everyone is doing it, just do it? But God says “you are on earth to do the will of God. [John 6:38]

11.The world tells you “the biological clock is ticking, fight to get married before 30 or else your chances of getting a man are slim but God says “I know the plans I have for you,plans for good and not for evil, to give you a hope and a future. [Jeremiah 29:11]

12:The world tell you, Must you be a slave to a man in a marriage, you are a professional woman, look for babies, go to a sperm bank and get injected with a baby and live a life of freedom as a single, if not look for a man to just give you a baby but God says” For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?[Matthew 19:5 ]

13:My dear brothers and sisters, what is the world saying to you? In all this, remember what the Lord is saying and shut your ears from the worldview. God bless you. Amen

EIGHT STEPS TO OVERCOME SEXUAL IMMORALITY

From anonymous
Are you struggling with a habit of sexual immorality? We have outlined a five-step process to help you change and heal in this area of your life. Take all the time you need with each of the steps below.
1:Adopt a Correct View of God
An incorrect view of God that sees Him as some kind of wishy-washy being who will simply look the other way when you sin will keep you in the vicious cycle of immorality.
God is holy and cannot tolerate sexual immorality.His will for you is you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. (1 Thessalonians 4:3)
Nothing in all creation is hidden from God. Everything is naked and exposed before His eyes, and He is the one to whom we are accountable. (Hebrews 4:13)
Make no mistake about it: God sees your sexual sin for what it is. He does not look away, and you cannot hide it from Him. Pursue a study of God’s holiness and justice in Scripture. Admit to yourself that He sees and judges what you are doing.
2: Revise Your False Beliefs
The false ideas from the world, related to sexuality, are almost unending. The harm they produce in people’s lives is almost unending as well. Just for starters, consider these self-evaluation questions:
• Do you believe your sexual immorality is acceptable?
Some ungodly people have wormed their way into our churches, saying that God’s marvelous grace allows us to live immoral lives.That's a lie from the devil. The condemnation of such people was recorded long ago, for they have denied our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ. (Jude 1:4)
• Do you believe your sexual desires are impossible to resist?
Dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. (Romans 8:12)
Given the ease with which we can unknowingly adopt false beliefs about human sexuality, we need to work hard to understand the truth about how God made us to be sexual beings. Using a concordance or topical Bible, learn more about God’s views on sexuality. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you the truth about your sin and to help you change your thinking.
 3: Repent of Your Sin
Do you use pornography? Have you been cheating on your spouse? Have you been dressing immodestly to get attention? Whatever your form of immorality has been, do not duck it—admit it to yourself and name it. Pray a prayer like the following, asking God to forgive your sin and empower your obedience.
God, I am guilty of the sin of _________. I know that my immoral behavior is wrong and that it causes You great pain, and I am truly sorry for that. Please forgive me for my sin. Cleanse me now of this sin and of its effects in my life. Fill me with the power of the Holy Spirit so that I may never return to this sin again. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, amen.

If you have harmed others with your sin, apologize to them. Seek reconciliation and offer restitution where appropriate.
4: Defend against Spiritual Attacks
You will be attacked in your area of weakness—count on it. Every time you turn on your TV, log on to the Internet, or walk out your front door, the enemies of your soul will be there. Watch out for the world, the flesh, and the Devil.
Your flesh (your sinful nature) will seek the pleasure of the flesh (your body) in the same old sinful ways you have known. Remember that the flesh (as your old sinful nature) is dead, having been crucified with Christ. You have been raised as a new person by the Holy Spirit. Live by the Spirit and not by the flesh.
If your area of weakness is sexual immorality,then Satan will set out the bait of sexual immorality for you. Protect yourself from these darts of temptation with the “shield of faith” (Ephesians 6:16). The the Devil’s suggestions that you can find true happiness by doing something forbidden will fall harmless to the ground if you put on the shield of faith.
Most likely, you will need a defense against temptation for a long time. Prepare for a prolonged battle, yet keep up your hope, because God is stronger than all your foes.
5: Flee Temptation
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
[1 Corinthians 6:18].
Sexual temptation can be hard to avoid. The roots of sexual desire run deep and feed on many different stimuli. If you are to remain free from this habitual sin, you must learn to avoid the things that feed it as much as possible.
Let me ask you,must you go to a man's house if you know he excites you sexually every time you see him.Wisdom demands you meet such people in public places and not private places and homes don't even invite him to your house when you are alone.Invite an accountability partner in your house whenever he says he\she is coming to visit you.
6:Focus on your relationship with God.
Seek a rich spiritual relationship through regular worship of God.
Also find biblical statements or stories that encourage you in your fight against sexual immorality. Commit at least one verse to memory so that you can use it in your fight against temptation, just as Jesus used Scripture against the Devil in the desert. Here is one verse to consider using:
You are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (Romans 8:9)
7: Establish safeguards.
What sets off your lustful acts? Put a barrier between that sinful trigger and yourself if you can. Take as many practical precautions to guard yourself. For example, Immediately break off any immoral relationship you have.
 If you rent pornographic DVDs, get rid of your DVD player. Or if you go to sexually explicit websites, install filtering software.
•  If you tend to dwell on lustful thoughts, choose a substitute image to put in your mind.
•  If you have homosexual tendencies, seek a Christian counselor skilled in reparative therapy.
•  Ask a trusted Christian friend to hold you accountable in your commitment to remain sexually pure.
8: Expect victory.
You may have fallen to sexual immorality in the past, but that does not mean you cannot know sexual purity now. Believe in God and in the path toward holiness that only He can bring.May God help you.Amen.

TWELVE BENEFITS OF HAVING A WIFE

TWELVE BENEFITS OF HAVING A WIFE
1:It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.The LORD God said[Genesis 2:18].If the Lord saw our limitation from the beginning,who im to think i can make it without the help of a wife?
2:A wife acts as a firewall to every other female who desires to intrude into your personal space thus your safety is guaranteed.
3:You can wish and pray for an accountability partner but what a great gift to have a wife. She will automatically assume that position and they never fail
4:One can chase a thousand, two can chase ten thousand, says Deuteronomy 32:30. A combined force of a prayerful wife helps achieve a lot than when you are single.
5:He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. [Proverbs 18:22] .Only God knows why his favors to a man are tied to a woman and i better obey than wonder why
6:You spend a lot as a single person than when married. Think about the coffee dates, the single's meetings that come with such a high price tag sometimes, the search and contacts you maintain as you worry who among this will I marry? It saves a lot when you marry and brings peace of mind.
7:Marriage makes a man live a well ordered life. A woman in many occasions,makes a man have a clear focus of where to go and a combination of ideas on this pathway,will enforce the resolve and make a man’s drive sure.
8: Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
Let me ask, my single friend, have you ever called a relative when alone and sick ,only to be told he\she is going out with his family, and might not be able to assist in taking you to a hospital? How does it feel. Good to have your own wife.In this life, you will not be the strong you all the time. Seasons come when you need someone close to you to rush you to hospital.
9:Of-course sex. If two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? [Eccl 4:11.]The best duvets and blankets cannot bring such warmth. It can only come from a source that is human like you. Nothing more and nothing less
10:Men ’s health improves drastically once they marry. I don’t know what women bring to a man but for evidence, look around from the married friends you know. Mine are healthier, satisfied and always regret why they never married earlier.
11:The joy of having to see your children call you dad, sing around and run around in the house with such peace and freedom of being home. This is just a good reminder that life is to be enjoyed, with full assurance of your heavenly fathers love, just as your kids enjoy your presence and love
12: Awoman's instincts never lie and having a wife who is sensitive to the work of God in a marriage makes all the difference in a man's life.Remember Pilate was warned by his wife not to touch Jesus nor do anything bad to him.He washed his hands from condemning him but the wife's alertness to the spirit of God,made all the difference.

WHAT DO I DO IF I HAVE COMMITTED SEXUAL SIN?

By  crucifixionby Matt Slick
The sexual drive is a very powerful one.  It is so strong that it can alter a person's thinking and emotions.  It can harden the heart and move us to irrational and sinful decisions.  God has created sex for the marriage bed and for there alone.  He wants you to be pure in mind and body, reserving the sexual union for the proper context of marriage so that you might properly honor God and your spouse.
Christians are not exempt from sexual sin.  If you are such a person who has fallen into fornication, adultery, pornography, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, or any other sexual deviation, then you need to stop.  You need to confess your sins to the Lord and break off your relationships that lead you or tempt you into further sin.  This may be hard to hear, but it is what is necessary.Failure to do this is to commit grievous sin.  But all is not lost,there is forgiveness in Christ
All of your sexual sins can be forgiven.  The blood of Christ is too great to be defeated by your sin.  Jesus paid a great price on the cross (1 Pet. 2:24).
 He shed His blood and gave His life and if you are a Christian, then you have been bought with a great price.  You are not your own and the Lord always longs to fellowship with you (1 Cor. 1:9).  All you need to know is that you must confess your sin to God and repent of it.  This means you stop doing it.  You are called by God to purity, not to sexual immorality.
    1 Cor. 6:18 says you must"Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body."
Eph. 5:3 puts it this way, "But do not let immorality or any impurity or greed even be named among you, as is not proper among saints."
    Col. 3:5, "Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry."
    1 Thess. 4:2-5 says, "For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.  For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality;  that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,  not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God."
The Greek word for "immorality" is porneia which means illicit sexual intercourse, i.e., fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, etc.  The English word "pornography" is derived from this Greek word.  So, you can see that God desires your holiness.  After all, this is why you are a Christian, to honor God, glorify Him, and live for Him.
To repeat, if you are in sexual sin, stop it, confess it, break off tempting relationships and situations, and seek the Lord.  If you fall again, then go to the cross again.  Never give up going to Jesus and receiving the forgiveness that you need.  Never think that the Lord Jesus will stop loving you.  Never doubt Him.  He loves you and knows your struggle.
Then, after you have repented, see if you can find someone to whom you can be accountable.  Find someone trustworthy and have them pray with you regularly.  It is so true that sometimes beating sexual sin cannot be done alone.  Sometimes we need the strength of the body of Christ.
What if I don't repent of my sin?
If you are a Christian involved in sexual sin then you know that the Holy Spirit has been convicting you.  If you feel no conviction, then you are either not really saved or are so hardened by the sin you've been committing that you are close to God taking your life.  This is the case in 1 Cor. 5:5 where a man was having sex with his father's wife and he would not repent.  Paul said, "I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus." Rest assured that God takes this seriously.  He will take your life to save your soul.  This is a loving move on God's part.
If you are reading this, then the Lord has directed you here because He wants you to know about this issue.  If you are in such sin, you know what the Lord requires of you now. Repent of it,renounce it and forsake it.
 If you are not in this sin, then thank the Lord for His mercy and continue to seek the Holiness of the Lord both in the flesh and spirit.God bless you

BEFORE HE SAYS I DO,DON'T PLAY THE ROLE OF A WIFE

When God was creating a woman,he knew she deserves honor,respect and  real love from the man  who dreams of having her as a wife.
This was not to be demanded,neither was it to be a work of the lady to compel the man to love her.
When Adam saw his Eve,he clearly demonstrated his love to her,in God's hearing.He proclaimed" This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called Woman,because she was taken out of Man.”before herself.Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.[Genesis 2:24-25]
My dear sisters,do you see what Adam did?He saw her,made a proclamation of his undying love to her,then took her as his wife.
Never be the one to open your mouth to tell a man you love him.That is the role of Adam
Later,we hear they were naked and not ashamed.That means they loved each others company.
My question to "some" girls is this,why are so many men ashamed of you,and are not ready to walk with you in broad daylight leave alone introduce you to his people,yet  you are frequent night visitors with no ties other than what we all know?
Why spend an entire weekend washing,cleaning,ironing and doing every effort available to make him declare his love to you?
Why struggle to make aman love you?Adam's love to EVE was clear  ,and he was not ashamed to make her know how he loves her.
Every woman deserves honor and respect but too bad these days.
Desperation has made so many ladies to loose their due honor and respect.
There's a difference between loving Caring and exchanging pleasantries with a guy and submitting to him as a wife.
Please understand this,Marriage and dating are two different things.
When you make yourself so cheap out of fear of loosing your man and starts giving him the services of a wife, you definitely will still end up loosing out.The man has to open his mouth and publicly declare his love to you before you commit your services.
 It's unfortunate that many girls have been dumped after doing alot to compel the men to love them.
This has caused serious emotional trauma to many,when reality sinks in.
Don't be deceived or tricked into believing that kissing you in the presence of his friends,attending social gatherings together and telling everybody on the street that you are his wife Makes you a true wife without the legal commitment.A friend was dumped two months to their wedding.Everyone was aware of it but loh,at the end of the rope it all went sour but unfortunately,three months to the wedding,there thoughts were -"arent we getting married in 3 months?
-You are my wife already
-The parents have already blessed us so why not?
Yes this lie sunk in,got her virginity to a lier and got dumped two months to the wedding?
Don't  fall for a guy so easily because he has said to his colleagues,family and all sundry this is my "chic". If you belong to him,let him proclaim and seal that proclamation with a marriage commitment.Until you reach the altar,keep off the sex arena.
Some men in just one week of friendship will boldly tell you that they  want to marry you but that statement is not enough reason for you to
Move into his apartment to live with him.
If you do that,it shows your weakness and thus exposing you to being used and later dumped as many have experienced.
Moving in without being legally married only makes you his in-house-mistress.Stop thinking that warming his bed and giving him sex will secure you his heart and his ring.
When he loves you he won't demand for sex.
The conclusion of the matter is this
Never compel a man to love you and never go an extra mile to be a wife when he has not declared it.Adam made it public,and sealed it before God.
As you wait to be seen by the Mr charming, stop acting like a wife when you are not, Uphold your dignity,give your heart and also be alert in your head.Be warned and be wise.God knows I have already warned you as your brother.God bless you

DAD VS SON CONVERSE

SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make in an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"
SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
LESSON
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important too.Like taking care of your family and taking time to listen to your kids concerns.May God help you

DEAR WIFE,TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOU LOVE HIM

There was a group of women at a seminar on "HOW TO LIVE IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND."
The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’
All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember. The women were then told to take their phones and send the following text: "I love you, sweetheart."
They were then told to exchange phones with their friends and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies.
1.Who is this?
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
3. I love you too.
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
7. ?!?
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
9. Am I dreaming?
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me...
Dear married woman,send the same text and see the reply?You can post the reply here if you don't mind but take care of your marriage.Let your man know you love him.Amen.