When God was creating a woman,he knew she deserves honor,respect and real love from the man who dreams of having her as a wife.
This was not to be demanded,neither was it to be a work of the lady to compel the man to love her.
When Adam saw his Eve,he clearly demonstrated his love to her,in God's hearing.He proclaimed" This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called Woman,because she was taken out of Man.”before herself.Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.[Genesis 2:24-25]
My dear sisters,do you see what Adam did?He saw her,made a proclamation of his undying love to her,then took her as his wife.
Never be the one to open your mouth to tell a man you love him.That is the role of Adam
Later,we hear they were naked and not ashamed.That means they loved each others company.
My question to "some" girls is this,why are so many men ashamed of you,and are not ready to walk with you in broad daylight leave alone introduce you to his people,yet you are frequent night visitors with no ties other than what we all know?
Why spend an entire weekend washing,cleaning,ironing and doing every effort available to make him declare his love to you?
Why struggle to make aman love you?Adam's love to EVE was clear ,and he was not ashamed to make her know how he loves her.
Every woman deserves honor and respect but too bad these days.
Desperation has made so many ladies to loose their due honor and respect.
There's a difference between loving Caring and exchanging pleasantries with a guy and submitting to him as a wife.
Please understand this,Marriage and dating are two different things.
When you make yourself so cheap out of fear of loosing your man and starts giving him the services of a wife, you definitely will still end up loosing out.The man has to open his mouth and publicly declare his love to you before you commit your services.
It's unfortunate that many girls have been dumped after doing alot to compel the men to love them.
This has caused serious emotional trauma to many,when reality sinks in.
Don't be deceived or tricked into believing that kissing you in the presence of his friends,attending social gatherings together and telling everybody on the street that you are his wife Makes you a true wife without the legal commitment.A friend was dumped two months to their wedding.Everyone was aware of it but loh,at the end of the rope it all went sour but unfortunately,three months to the wedding,there thoughts were -"arent we getting married in 3 months?
-You are my wife already
-The parents have already blessed us so why not?
Yes this lie sunk in,got her virginity to a lier and got dumped two months to the wedding?
Don't fall for a guy so easily because he has said to his colleagues,family and all sundry this is my "chic". If you belong to him,let him proclaim and seal that proclamation with a marriage commitment.Until you reach the altar,keep off the sex arena.
Some men in just one week of friendship will boldly tell you that they want to marry you but that statement is not enough reason for you to
Move into his apartment to live with him.
If you do that,it shows your weakness and thus exposing you to being used and later dumped as many have experienced.
Moving in without being legally married only makes you his in-house-mistress.Stop thinking that warming his bed and giving him sex will secure you his heart and his ring.
When he loves you he won't demand for sex.
The conclusion of the matter is this
Never compel a man to love you and never go an extra mile to be a wife when he has not declared it.Adam made it public,and sealed it before God.
As you wait to be seen by the Mr charming, stop acting like a wife when you are not, Uphold your dignity,give your heart and also be alert in your head.Be warned and be wise.God knows I have already warned you as your brother.God bless you
Saturday 22 March 2014
Thursday 20 March 2014
DAD VS SON CONVERSE
SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make in an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"
SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
LESSON
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important too.Like taking care of your family and taking time to listen to your kids concerns.May God help you
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?"
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make in an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
SON: "Oh! (With his head down).
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
DAD: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
DAD: "Are you asleep, son?"
SON: "No daddy, I'm awake".
DAD: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
DAD: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
SON: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
LESSON
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important too.Like taking care of your family and taking time to listen to your kids concerns.May God help you
DEAR WIFE,TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOU LOVE HIM
There was a group of women at a seminar on "HOW TO LIVE IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND."
The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’
All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember. The women were then told to take their phones and send the following text: "I love you, sweetheart."
They were then told to exchange phones with their friends and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies.
1.Who is this?
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
3. I love you too.
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
7. ?!?
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
9. Am I dreaming?
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me...
Dear married woman,send the same text and see the reply?You can post the reply here if you don't mind but take care of your marriage.Let your man know you love him.Amen.
The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’
All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember. The women were then told to take their phones and send the following text: "I love you, sweetheart."
They were then told to exchange phones with their friends and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies.
1.Who is this?
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
3. I love you too.
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
7. ?!?
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
9. Am I dreaming?
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me...
Dear married woman,send the same text and see the reply?You can post the reply here if you don't mind but take care of your marriage.Let your man know you love him.Amen.
LET IT GO ( THE BATTLE IS THE LORD'S )
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you
this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2014!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2014!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
Wednesday 19 March 2014
GENTLE POINTERS THAT HIGHLIGHT DEATH OF A RELATIONSHIP
1. THE LINE IS DEAD
From anonymous
●When a person is excited about you, they want to communicate with you as often as possible. They will call, tweet, text, facebook; whatever it takes, just to hear from you and to commune with you.
● When the line from the other end seems dead, something is wrong. Scrutinize your communication. Are you the constant initiator? Do they ever bother? Is your excitement one sided? Value yourself.
You also deserve to be longingly anticipated.
2. THE MISSING FOLLOW UP
●When a person asks you out and goes out with you, they will usually communicate and let you know what a good time they had. If they don't follow up the date with any communication, maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as you did.
●If you are still waiting after a week, two weeks, a month, several months and they don't say anything, they are probably not going to communicate. If you are the only one being superfluous with gratitude about the date, the excitement is lopsided. It seems the pleasure was all yours!
●Ladies, a man who is excited about you will not stay silent for days, weeks and months on end after a date.
He may be a gentleman and may be playing polite but the truth is, he's just not that interested.
●Don't keep checking why he hasn't called you back. Don't nag somebody for feedback. Move on. You will find someone who loves you the way you desire to be loved. Remember, you were not created to be tolerated. Let dignity guard you! Dignity is the awareness that you also deserve honor!
3. THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST
●One undeniable result of passion is pursuit. When you are passionate about something, you create time for it and you prioritize it.
●When a person no longer prioritizes your dates, postpones them for flimsy reasons or seems relieved when something else comes up, they are telling you something.
●When your requests to meet are met with excuses, excuses, excuses like; "I had to work late, I need to do something, my mum sent me to shaggs, I had homework", they are avoiding you.
● A person in love with you cannot get enough of being with you. When you are relegated to the bottom of the priority list the relationship is dying. When you are being endured, it is a bad sign. Don't insist, read the signs.
●Maya Angelous said
"when people show you who they really are, believe them".
●Many people who have wasted time waiting for someone, simply ignored the obvious signs that were presented before them.
●If he/she constantly comes late for dates, because they'd rather be doing something else more interesting, it's a burning bush signal to you.
●If they begin to postpone dates, the burning bush is now talking.
If they don't show up for dates and never say a word, the bush is now shouting while running round in circles. Someone is definitely missing the screaming signs.
4. THE THIRD PARTY
●Relationships are for two, but as I read on a flier recently, some people don't know how to count. When there's a third person competing for your loved one, and he/she is allowing it, it's time for a relationship review.
●When your boy/girl friend seems so taken and in awe of another person, it is a red flag. When they would rather do anything for that person but you seem to have to beg, write a petition and a thesis justifying what you are asking for, you are no longer their number one.
●You have become a contingency plan and an option.. You were "now showing" but you have been overtaken. Watch out, "coming soon" is round the corner.
●Also, when your loved one is completely unmoved if someone else is interested in you, they are over you. Even God is jealous for His own. When someone doesn't seem to care whether or not a third party has their sights on you, they have removed themselves from that equation.
● It doesn't matter any more to them, whether you go or stay. When he/she would rather be with their buddies rather than you, the relationship is dead.
5. THE CLANDESTINE POSITION
●When a person is sure that they want to spend the rest of their life with you, they introduce you to their close friends and family. They will want you to meet the people that matter to them. Beware of the person who hides you.
Beware of the person who wants to walk with you at night.Who will not be seen with you in public.
Whose family has never heard of you and who keeps downplaying the "meet and greet".
●It is a strong indication that you are not that important to them.
●If you were dating and then suddenly you are the only one introducing them as your boy/girlfriend, something is wrong.
If they introduce you as their neighbor, friend or prayer partner and seem not to call you girl/boyfriend anymore, they are over you.
●Just to clarify something here; Never assume that you are dating someone.
It doesn't matter how many dates you have gone for, you have to agree when you are "officially" boyfriend and girl/friend.
If this has happened but the person now struggles to introduce you as such; they are either embarrassed about you or not convinced in their heart about you.
6. THE SLOW IT DOWN PLEA
●Passion can be impatient. When a person is excited about something, they want it now! It doesn't ever seem to happen fast enough. That is why, when the person you are dating begins to talk in terms of slowing things down, they are sending a message. They are easing you off. They want to gently back off from you.
● I'm not talking about a genuine request to figure out whether or not they are ready. I'm talking about someone who just wants more "SPACE" away from you. Don't ask and make it more awkward by asking " Can I call you after space period is over"? Get the message.
●Honorable people are straight forward and honest in a polite and loving way. Unfortunately, not everyone is honorable in relationships. It's a sad thing when you find yourself with someone who doesn't have the backbone to tell you that they don't think the relationship is going anywhere. Someone who strings you along and keeps you frustrated and wondering.
●What is worse, is allowing yourself to be stringed along.
●What is sad is ignoring the signs and insisting that all is well. Do yourself a favor, dis-mount! That horse is long gone.
●Don't get bitter and vindictive. Clarify their position, release them and trust God NEVER to end up in such a situation again. I often say "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
●By God's grace and wisdom, you will find the right and the best person for you.Don't delay the entrance of that person into your life by holding on to the wrong time wasting relationships.
●If you are the person who knows that you are no longer interested, stop stringing someone along. Man up. Be honest and gracious and let them know. Don't waste anybody's time. It is not merciful. It is actually very cruel. I decree that you have wisdom.You will marry well in Jesus name.amen
From anonymous
●When a person is excited about you, they want to communicate with you as often as possible. They will call, tweet, text, facebook; whatever it takes, just to hear from you and to commune with you.
● When the line from the other end seems dead, something is wrong. Scrutinize your communication. Are you the constant initiator? Do they ever bother? Is your excitement one sided? Value yourself.
You also deserve to be longingly anticipated.
2. THE MISSING FOLLOW UP
●When a person asks you out and goes out with you, they will usually communicate and let you know what a good time they had. If they don't follow up the date with any communication, maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as you did.
●If you are still waiting after a week, two weeks, a month, several months and they don't say anything, they are probably not going to communicate. If you are the only one being superfluous with gratitude about the date, the excitement is lopsided. It seems the pleasure was all yours!
●Ladies, a man who is excited about you will not stay silent for days, weeks and months on end after a date.
He may be a gentleman and may be playing polite but the truth is, he's just not that interested.
●Don't keep checking why he hasn't called you back. Don't nag somebody for feedback. Move on. You will find someone who loves you the way you desire to be loved. Remember, you were not created to be tolerated. Let dignity guard you! Dignity is the awareness that you also deserve honor!
3. THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST
●One undeniable result of passion is pursuit. When you are passionate about something, you create time for it and you prioritize it.
●When a person no longer prioritizes your dates, postpones them for flimsy reasons or seems relieved when something else comes up, they are telling you something.
●When your requests to meet are met with excuses, excuses, excuses like; "I had to work late, I need to do something, my mum sent me to shaggs, I had homework", they are avoiding you.
● A person in love with you cannot get enough of being with you. When you are relegated to the bottom of the priority list the relationship is dying. When you are being endured, it is a bad sign. Don't insist, read the signs.
●Maya Angelous said
"when people show you who they really are, believe them".
●Many people who have wasted time waiting for someone, simply ignored the obvious signs that were presented before them.
●If he/she constantly comes late for dates, because they'd rather be doing something else more interesting, it's a burning bush signal to you.
●If they begin to postpone dates, the burning bush is now talking.
If they don't show up for dates and never say a word, the bush is now shouting while running round in circles. Someone is definitely missing the screaming signs.
4. THE THIRD PARTY
●Relationships are for two, but as I read on a flier recently, some people don't know how to count. When there's a third person competing for your loved one, and he/she is allowing it, it's time for a relationship review.
●When your boy/girl friend seems so taken and in awe of another person, it is a red flag. When they would rather do anything for that person but you seem to have to beg, write a petition and a thesis justifying what you are asking for, you are no longer their number one.
●You have become a contingency plan and an option.. You were "now showing" but you have been overtaken. Watch out, "coming soon" is round the corner.
●Also, when your loved one is completely unmoved if someone else is interested in you, they are over you. Even God is jealous for His own. When someone doesn't seem to care whether or not a third party has their sights on you, they have removed themselves from that equation.
● It doesn't matter any more to them, whether you go or stay. When he/she would rather be with their buddies rather than you, the relationship is dead.
5. THE CLANDESTINE POSITION
●When a person is sure that they want to spend the rest of their life with you, they introduce you to their close friends and family. They will want you to meet the people that matter to them. Beware of the person who hides you.
Beware of the person who wants to walk with you at night.Who will not be seen with you in public.
Whose family has never heard of you and who keeps downplaying the "meet and greet".
●It is a strong indication that you are not that important to them.
●If you were dating and then suddenly you are the only one introducing them as your boy/girlfriend, something is wrong.
If they introduce you as their neighbor, friend or prayer partner and seem not to call you girl/boyfriend anymore, they are over you.
●Just to clarify something here; Never assume that you are dating someone.
It doesn't matter how many dates you have gone for, you have to agree when you are "officially" boyfriend and girl/friend.
If this has happened but the person now struggles to introduce you as such; they are either embarrassed about you or not convinced in their heart about you.
6. THE SLOW IT DOWN PLEA
●Passion can be impatient. When a person is excited about something, they want it now! It doesn't ever seem to happen fast enough. That is why, when the person you are dating begins to talk in terms of slowing things down, they are sending a message. They are easing you off. They want to gently back off from you.
● I'm not talking about a genuine request to figure out whether or not they are ready. I'm talking about someone who just wants more "SPACE" away from you. Don't ask and make it more awkward by asking " Can I call you after space period is over"? Get the message.
●Honorable people are straight forward and honest in a polite and loving way. Unfortunately, not everyone is honorable in relationships. It's a sad thing when you find yourself with someone who doesn't have the backbone to tell you that they don't think the relationship is going anywhere. Someone who strings you along and keeps you frustrated and wondering.
●What is worse, is allowing yourself to be stringed along.
●What is sad is ignoring the signs and insisting that all is well. Do yourself a favor, dis-mount! That horse is long gone.
●Don't get bitter and vindictive. Clarify their position, release them and trust God NEVER to end up in such a situation again. I often say "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
●By God's grace and wisdom, you will find the right and the best person for you.Don't delay the entrance of that person into your life by holding on to the wrong time wasting relationships.
●If you are the person who knows that you are no longer interested, stop stringing someone along. Man up. Be honest and gracious and let them know. Don't waste anybody's time. It is not merciful. It is actually very cruel. I decree that you have wisdom.You will marry well in Jesus name.amen
Monday 17 March 2014
ISN'T IT STRANGE
Isn't it strange how ksh 1000 seems like such a large amount when we give it as offering, BUT such a small amount when you go shopping?
Isn't it strange how 2hrs seem so long when you're in church BUT how short they seem when you're watching a good movie?
Isn't it strange that you can't find a word to say when you're to make supplication to God, BUT you have no trouble thinking of what to talk to a friend ?
Isn't it strange get late to church,yet we are always so early in our offices as we report to work
Isn't it strange how difficult and boring it is to read one chapter of the bible, BUT how easy it is to read 100 pages of a popular novel or magazine?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants front-row-tickets to concerts, Football House, film house or games, BUT they do whatever is possible to sit at the last row in the Holy gathering (Church or Fellowship)?
Isn't it strange how everyone wants a place in Paradise, BUT they don't want to believe, do or say anything to get there?
Isn't it strange how we send jokes in emails, BBM, whatsApp, Facebook, 2go, Eskimi and they are forwarded right away, BUT when we are going to share messages about God, we think about it twice before we share it with others?*
Isn't it strange that people struggle to give to a church function but pay in advance for a concert that is going to be staged by a popular worldly musician?
Isn't it that someone can afford a mobile phone worhty ksh 10000 but does not have a bible to walk with to church,live alone read in the house?
***IT'S STRANGE, ISN'T IT?***that our mobile phone has taken the place of the bible in our lives.What would happen if we treated the Holy Bible the way we treat our mobile phone?May God help us all.
DO NOT JUDGE So Quickly!!
From Anonymous
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent
surgery.He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's mother going and coming in the hall waiting for the
doctor. On seeing him, the mother yelled: "Why did you take all this time to come?Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't you have
the sense of responsibility? "
The doctor smiled and said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital and
I came the fastest I could after receiving the call..And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work" "Calm down?!
What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the mother angrily.
The doctor smiled again and replied: Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"
"Giving advice when we're not concerned is so easy"
Murmured the mother. The surgery took some hours after
which the doctor went out happy,"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"
And without waiting for the mother's reply he carried on his way running.
"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"
"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about
my son's state" commented the mother when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered, tears coming down her face:
"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we
called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."
Moral:- Never Judge Anyone on your own way. Because You never know how their life is & what they're going through!
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent
surgery.He answered the call asap, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's mother going and coming in the hall waiting for the
doctor. On seeing him, the mother yelled: "Why did you take all this time to come?Don't you know that my son's life is in danger? Don't you have
the sense of responsibility? "
The doctor smiled and said: "I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital and
I came the fastest I could after receiving the call..And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work" "Calm down?!
What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the mother angrily.
The doctor smiled again and replied: Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go and intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"
"Giving advice when we're not concerned is so easy"
Murmured the mother. The surgery took some hours after
which the doctor went out happy,"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!"
And without waiting for the mother's reply he carried on his way running.
"If you have any question, ask the nurse!!"
"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about
my son's state" commented the mother when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left. The nurse answered, tears coming down her face:
"His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we
called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."
Moral:- Never Judge Anyone on your own way. Because You never know how their life is & what they're going through!
LET ME TELL YOU THIS MY DEAR BROTHER
Bro,You can't expect her to be loyal to you while you're being unfaithful to her.
-You can't expect her to be committed to you while you're out there sleeping with other women around,and behind her back.
-You can't expect her to be honest with you while you're lying to her face.
If your cry is,she is unfaithful to me,then my question is,are you faithful to her?
Don't expect her to show you off while you seem to be keeping her as a secret.
You can't expect her to trust you while you're always putting yourself in untrustworthy situations.
You can't expect her not get jealous when you talk to other girls all the time,yet have very little time for her,and rarely do you seat her down to just listen to her concerns as your girlfriend leave alone as your wife
You can't expect her to not get mad at what you do while you're annoyed at every little thing she does.
You can't expect her to care while you're always uncaring to her and her emotional needs
God is our greatest matchmaker and he says evil men and seducers shall grow worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.[2 Timothy 3:13]
My point is,you can't expect fidelity from the one you care for and pretend to love,when you are out there doing every kind of infidelity?You will deceive and she will deceive you and as the bible says,you will grow from worse to worse, deceiving and getting deceived!So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you [Matthew 7:12] .
Marriage and relationships is always a two way thing;and that is a fact of life.Care for your own and you will receive the same care.Have a blessed week
-You can't expect her to be committed to you while you're out there sleeping with other women around,and behind her back.
-You can't expect her to be honest with you while you're lying to her face.
If your cry is,she is unfaithful to me,then my question is,are you faithful to her?
Don't expect her to show you off while you seem to be keeping her as a secret.
You can't expect her to trust you while you're always putting yourself in untrustworthy situations.
You can't expect her not get jealous when you talk to other girls all the time,yet have very little time for her,and rarely do you seat her down to just listen to her concerns as your girlfriend leave alone as your wife
You can't expect her to not get mad at what you do while you're annoyed at every little thing she does.
You can't expect her to care while you're always uncaring to her and her emotional needs
God is our greatest matchmaker and he says evil men and seducers shall grow worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.[2 Timothy 3:13]
My point is,you can't expect fidelity from the one you care for and pretend to love,when you are out there doing every kind of infidelity?You will deceive and she will deceive you and as the bible says,you will grow from worse to worse, deceiving and getting deceived!So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you [Matthew 7:12] .
Marriage and relationships is always a two way thing;and that is a fact of life.Care for your own and you will receive the same care.Have a blessed week
Friday 14 March 2014
WOMAN OF GOD,YOUR MAN HAS AN EGO,SAFEGUARD IT
From anonymous
I know many women hate
hearing the word, ‘ego’ but that is a critical aspect of a man. His
ego builds the pride in your man to be responsible, take care of his
family and protect it. The greatest responsibility of a woman is to
safeguard her man’s ego. If you want to chase him away, keep bruising
his ego, if you want him to perform his best in his responsibilities
keep affirming him. Men are not necessarily looking for a stunning
beautiful woman, but a secure and confident lady who will respect them.
Whereas men derive their confidence and self-esteem from their career
and achievement his woman remains the single most enhancer of his
self-esteem. There is never a middle ground on this; you either have a
man who is always enthusiastic to tell you his plans for the family,
career, business and other dreams or a timid gentleman. Those men who
have been belittled at home either remain quiet at home or become
runaway husbands with the bar, office and mistresses being their escape
destinations. Just like women want to be valued, pampered, taken out
and their feelings understood men love it when their ego is Massaged.
Woman of God,here are some points to note down about men and what to
do,or not do: 1:AVOID SHOUTING HIM DOWN Many women lie to themselves
that by shouting down or speaking their mind at their men they will tow
them to line, but in most cases it doesn’t. Just like the way women
love it when their men listen to them when they are offloading, men
appreciate to be listened to during a conflict resolution moment. You
don’t win by shouting him down, you lose him. It helps when you
listened to his side of the story even when you think you are right.
Don't tear down what he's saying midway! There is no man so insensitive
not understand your views when addressed with respect. Shouting your
husband\ boyfriend down will most likely bruise his ego, send him to
quietness and eventually send him away from your house. Most women love
letting out when they are angry, but remember your man is not your
door mat to tell all the bad words in your heart. All of us get angry
but the difference is what we do with it. If you can’t control your
anger learn to hold your words till you have cooled down. The Story of
Abigael in 1st Samuel 25 is worthy noting for every woman of God.
Verse 36-37 says "When Abigail arrived home, she found that Nabal (the
husband) was throwing a big party and was celebrating like a king. He
was very drunk, so she didn’t tell him anything about her meeting with
David until dawn the next day. In the morning when Nabal was sober, his
wife told him what had happened. Abigail like any woman who is
concerned about her family must have been angry and infact,very angry,
but she waited until when the husband was sober and informed him of
what had happened. He got a stroke and in 10 days, he died. Abigail was
wise enough to know when to talk to the husband and when to keep
silent. 2: BE A GOOD HOST Everyman wants to build a successful family,
more so we all want to portray this to friends and family. Besides
their ego, men’s confidence is boosted by the ability to bring up a
successful marriage. Every man prides in a warm home created by the
woman of their dreams. Serving his visitors warmly feeds his pride and
earns you extra points. My dear sisters, When his friends and family
are around, your man is looking up to you to be a good host. Let him
not take his visitors out of your house because you're not interested
with his people or visitors. Why should he take his visitors to a hotel
to eat when you're a round? Even when you can't cook, be the one to
compel them to stay and rush out to buy the snacks for them. Build his
confidence by putting your best foot forward in making his visitors
comfortable. 3:The biggest mistake a woman can do to a man, is complain
about his visitors and worse still, his relatives. Some of this men
you are married to or even dating were brought up by the village and
they value everyone who made a mark in their life. Yes, some relatives
are not good but please, keep your mouth shut and never complain about
it unless your life is in danger. Many men know how to deal with every
visitor or relatives and be sure, they will always welcome people they
know you will be comfortable with. Ask God to give you grace if you
have problems with his relatives but don’t shout any down. If you do
that,you are literally telling him, I don’t value you 4:Some husbands
are good and help in cooking and cleaning utensils in the house but
when visitors are in the house, please don't call him to help you cook
or clean utensils. He wants to create the impression that he has a
lovely responsible woman by his side. If you run him around, that's the
genesis of the word Bibi amemkalia (The wife has sat on him). Every
man wants a good name out there and when in your house, just know that
the relatives and friends are watching your every move and it will
translate to a good name out there or a bad one. Proverbs 31:23 says
"Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the
other civic leaders. Always do your best to make your family
comfortable by making your husband have a good name out there. My dear
sisters, Your man’s confidence and responsibility is boosted by your
affirmation of his ego, respect and encouragement. Develop that
attitude and your marriage will soon be in the New-york times as
exemplary.You will see people flocking to your home,for the secret of a
better marriage. God's desire is that you may build your man up and
not tear him down. Do your best to safeguard his ego and your marriage
will last. May God help you. Amen.
PRAYER-POINT FOR THE MEN OF GOD
Not all men are evil and many times,we have heard of men who were taken advantage of in a relationship that they thought could go far,only to realize it was no more,and that time,all their investments and dreams were cut short.As a man of God,use this word from the scriptures to pray for yourself this weekend
When writing the book of Ecclesiastes,Solomon Exclaimed ", a seductive woman is a trap more bitter than death. Her passion is a snare, and her soft hands are chains. Those who are pleasing to God will escape her, but sinners will be caught in her snare.
Ecclesiastes 7:26
Man of God,this weekend pray using this word and pray that:
1:You may be found pleasing in the sight of God
2.Ask the Lord to shield you from the snare of the passions some of this evil and seductive women bring in your path to snare you.Tell the Lord to remove you from the presence of such women and ask for his grace and spirit of discernment to run away,when the enemy brings such in your path
3:In-case you have been chained by her soft hands,Pray that God may unchain you from it
4:Pray that God may help you escape the traps that such women are placing in your path.[It's said that most women who get paged out of the will of God,and the guy runs away,often look for a decent guy in church, seduces him to bed and then tells him of a pregnancy that belongs to another man]..Pray that you will never be used by the enemy, and such a trap will never hold water on you.Ask God to protect you
Brethren,iF single and looking for a wife ,pray and pray to God using this word
Seek God using this verse.Let him be aware of your desires to settle down with a Godly woman.
This does not mean that women should not use the same.Turn that verse around and pray for the Lord's guidance and protection from seductive men too.LET PRAY AND PLEASE PRAY.If looking for a wife cover yourself first using this word,before you step out......
God bless you and grant you all you desire in prayer in his great name.amen
HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS.
From Anonymous
1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn't work out don't kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on.
2. Don't give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first.
3. Don't get carried away with beauty or money, if that person's inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot.either.
4. Love is never enough, understanding compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.
5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets 'broken'.
6. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
7. Don't demand trust, earn it or build it or show it.
8. Never compare him or her to someone else.
9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven but care,love and concern driven.
10. Don't marry him or her because you saw him or her in church. Many are in church but not in touch with God.
11. If God give you the woman or man of your dreams, you may be dreaming the remaining days of your life.
Discover your purpose and you will attract the right person. If your heart is with God, He will keep men or women from tampering with it! And.always remember to Love with your heart but also with an alert head!
Blessed day
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
Girl: dad i m in love with a boy who is far a way from me.
I m in Kenya and he live in uk.We met on dating website,Became friends on Facebook,had long chats on whats-app,proposed to each other on
Skype,and now we are two months into our relationship through viber I need your blessings and good wishes "oh daddy',
Her dad said: now get married on twitter,have fun on tango. Buy your kids on e-bay, send them through gmail. And if you are fed up with your
husband.... sell him on OLX!
Thursday 13 March 2014
DEAR SISTERS,ARE YOU A VIRGIN?! THEN DON'T ALLOW THAT GATE TO BE BROKEN
By Eldorado Theophilus
Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thin tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the the virginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
My dear brothers and sisters,do you now see why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c) said it in clear terms: , “Now, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he\she is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age![1Cor.6:13]
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters into her, especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!
The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed men while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be dis-virgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so.
The Bible says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her (1 Cor. 6:16). This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
Woman of God,,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you, and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter.
The fun part of pre- marital sex is not really funny. What happens in between the lines could be deadly and dangerous.
HIV is just one among many of those demons of darkness sent to inflict pain on those who practice unauthorized and casual entry of a woman. If you give it to a man who has been maritally joined to you in holy matrimony as your one and only husband,you lose nothing; because he remains with you forever. In that case, he would retain your virtues and never leave with it!
That hymen is your GATE and it was meant to seal you up (close you up) till you mingle with a man that has married you (not a fiance). One that will not carry your worth away or go and dump it in another woman’s soul. That hymen is a thing of pride! This is what men use to classify a lady as untapped, complete, chassis, intact, brand new (cha-cha) and unused.
You would agree with me that this kind of ladies are getting rare!
If you are still a virgin,DON'T BREAK THAT GATE!
Please stay chaste! Stay complete! Cover your body, dress well!
Be proud of it! Don’t listen to anyone who shouts down on virgins as outcasts, weaklings, unfortunate, small girls, etc. if only they told you the real truth about the spiritual poverty they feel deep within;deep within; you would have received boldness to celebrate your virginity instyle.
I hereby boldly say that it is an honor for a woman to experience sex for the first time after her wedding night!
I therefore urge you to hold your head up and Don’t break that gate till the man who will sign his life to it has come. You’re not a sex object. You were made for a purpose in God.
Find God and you will find it! Don’t break that hymen because you need money. It’s of more value than dollars. The hymen is your sexual gate, placed there by God and there is blood in it. If that gate must break, If your blood in it must be shed, then let it be on the body of the man who has married you (not just the one promising to do so).
IF PERADVENTURE, YOU HAVE BROKEN THAT GATE, out of an irresponsible, careless or casual sexual affair, Jesus is waiting for your call, no matter what you’ve done, only Him can restore back to you all the self worth you’ve lost so unworthily.
Allow the Lord to miraculously close you up now before you’re totally emptied of value and virtue! He will soon provide optimum security for you in a faithful man if only you trust Him. The salvation that comes with Christ Jesus is ever available for all who cry out for His cleansing and mercy. Hear Him say “Come,Unto Me All Ye That Labor and Are Heavy Laden,I Will Give You Rest!”.
Dear Singles, Why would you continue living a wasted life? His own blood
still washes white as snow. Come To Jesus Today,His arms are widely opened, He is ready to receive you today! Come quick! Come Now! Cry to God to restore you! Make up your mind and repent! If you need some help or counseling, You can also get help from any man or woman of God closest to you! God bless you!
Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thin tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the the virginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
My dear brothers and sisters,do you now see why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c) said it in clear terms: , “Now, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he\she is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age![1Cor.6:13]
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters into her, especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!
The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed men while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be dis-virgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so.
The Bible says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her (1 Cor. 6:16). This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
Woman of God,,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you, and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter.
The fun part of pre- marital sex is not really funny. What happens in between the lines could be deadly and dangerous.
HIV is just one among many of those demons of darkness sent to inflict pain on those who practice unauthorized and casual entry of a woman. If you give it to a man who has been maritally joined to you in holy matrimony as your one and only husband,you lose nothing; because he remains with you forever. In that case, he would retain your virtues and never leave with it!
That hymen is your GATE and it was meant to seal you up (close you up) till you mingle with a man that has married you (not a fiance). One that will not carry your worth away or go and dump it in another woman’s soul. That hymen is a thing of pride! This is what men use to classify a lady as untapped, complete, chassis, intact, brand new (cha-cha) and unused.
You would agree with me that this kind of ladies are getting rare!
If you are still a virgin,DON'T BREAK THAT GATE!
Please stay chaste! Stay complete! Cover your body, dress well!
Be proud of it! Don’t listen to anyone who shouts down on virgins as outcasts, weaklings, unfortunate, small girls, etc. if only they told you the real truth about the spiritual poverty they feel deep within;deep within; you would have received boldness to celebrate your virginity instyle.
I hereby boldly say that it is an honor for a woman to experience sex for the first time after her wedding night!
I therefore urge you to hold your head up and Don’t break that gate till the man who will sign his life to it has come. You’re not a sex object. You were made for a purpose in God.
Find God and you will find it! Don’t break that hymen because you need money. It’s of more value than dollars. The hymen is your sexual gate, placed there by God and there is blood in it. If that gate must break, If your blood in it must be shed, then let it be on the body of the man who has married you (not just the one promising to do so).
IF PERADVENTURE, YOU HAVE BROKEN THAT GATE, out of an irresponsible, careless or casual sexual affair, Jesus is waiting for your call, no matter what you’ve done, only Him can restore back to you all the self worth you’ve lost so unworthily.
Allow the Lord to miraculously close you up now before you’re totally emptied of value and virtue! He will soon provide optimum security for you in a faithful man if only you trust Him. The salvation that comes with Christ Jesus is ever available for all who cry out for His cleansing and mercy. Hear Him say “Come,Unto Me All Ye That Labor and Are Heavy Laden,I Will Give You Rest!”.
Dear Singles, Why would you continue living a wasted life? His own blood
still washes white as snow. Come To Jesus Today,His arms are widely opened, He is ready to receive you today! Come quick! Come Now! Cry to God to restore you! Make up your mind and repent! If you need some help or counseling, You can also get help from any man or woman of God closest to you! God bless you!
15 BASIC COMMANDMENTS ON SEX FROM THE WORD OF GOD
We live in a perverted society, and many of the ills people go through are often as a result of going against God's sexual order.God has a well elaborated and documented commands on how we should behave sexualy.Many people dying premature dearth are often as a result of breaking this basic commands from the Lord.
Below are the commands everybody should observe as he\she relates to the opposite gender
1:No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the Lord
2:Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. Do not have sexual relations with either her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter; they are her close relatives. That is wickedness.[Very common nowadays]
3:'Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.
4:Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.
5:Do not approach a woman to have sexual relations during the uncleanness of her monthly period.
6:Do not have sexual relations with your son’s daughter or your daughter’s daughter; that would dishonor you.
7:Do not have sexual relations with your neighbor's wife and defile yourself with her.
8:Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.
9:Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it.
10: A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.[ever heard of sex porn with dogs among certain women?It's dangerous to do that]
11:‘Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father’s wife, born to your father; she is your sister.
12:Do not have sexual relations with your father’s sister; she is your father’s close relative nor have sexual relations with your mother’s sister, because she is your mother’s close relative
13:Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife; do not have relations with her
14:Do not dishonor your father’s brother by approaching his wife to have sexual relations; she is your aunt.''Leviticus 18
conclusion:
‘Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled. Even the land was defiled; so I punished it for its sin, and the land vomited out its inhabitants.
Do you hear that men and women?If you do any of this,God will punish the land and the same LAND WILL VOMIT ITS INHABITANTS!
Take care of yourselves.It's dangerous to go against God's order...I have one my part.you are already warned...May God help us all stick to his order.amen
Wednesday 12 March 2014
GOD ‘S GOOD AND ALL HE DOES IS PERFECT
GOD ‘S GOOD AND ALL HE DOES IS PERFECT
From anonymous
A King had a male servant who, in all circumstances always said to him;
My king, do not be discouraged because everything God does is perfect and with no mistakes.
One day, they went hunting and a wild animal attacked the king, the servant managed to kill the animal but couldn't prevent his majesty from losing a finger.
Furious and without showing gratitude, the King said; 'if God was good, I would not have been attacked and lost one finger.!
The servant replied,'despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good,
and everything He does is perfect, He is never wrong'. Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his servant.
While being taken to prison, he told the king again, God is Good and perfect.He never makes mistakes.
Another day, the king left alone for another hunt and was captured by savages who use human beings for sacrifice.
On the altar, the savages found out that the king didn't have one finger in place.
He was released because he was considered not "complete" to be offered to the gods.
On his return to the palace, he ordered the release of his servant and said; My friend, God was really good to me. I was almost killed but for lack of
a single finger, I was let go. But I have a question; If God is so good, why did He allow me to put you in prison?
With a face beaming with a smile,his servant replied;
'My king, if I had not been put in prison, I would have gone with you, and would have been sacrificed, because I have no missing finger. Everything God does is perfect, He is never wrong.'
My dear brothers and sisters,Often times we complain about life,and the negative things that happen to us, forgetting that everything happens for a purpose.
Yes!you may have lost a job,
lost loved ones in an accident,
gotten sacked based on backbiting and pressures in the office,
Gotten a rude shock,after realizing your fiance has another girlfriend,and has told you openly i want to marry her ,but not you
You may have lost that job contract
In all this,and whatever you are facing,just know that "all things to work together for good, to those who love God, and to those who are called according to His purpose. [Romans 8:28]
God is Good and perfect brethren.He never makes mistakes.
From anonymous
A King had a male servant who, in all circumstances always said to him;
My king, do not be discouraged because everything God does is perfect and with no mistakes.
One day, they went hunting and a wild animal attacked the king, the servant managed to kill the animal but couldn't prevent his majesty from losing a finger.
Furious and without showing gratitude, the King said; 'if God was good, I would not have been attacked and lost one finger.!
The servant replied,'despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good,
and everything He does is perfect, He is never wrong'. Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his servant.
While being taken to prison, he told the king again, God is Good and perfect.He never makes mistakes.
Another day, the king left alone for another hunt and was captured by savages who use human beings for sacrifice.
On the altar, the savages found out that the king didn't have one finger in place.
He was released because he was considered not "complete" to be offered to the gods.
On his return to the palace, he ordered the release of his servant and said; My friend, God was really good to me. I was almost killed but for lack of
a single finger, I was let go. But I have a question; If God is so good, why did He allow me to put you in prison?
With a face beaming with a smile,his servant replied;
'My king, if I had not been put in prison, I would have gone with you, and would have been sacrificed, because I have no missing finger. Everything God does is perfect, He is never wrong.'
My dear brothers and sisters,Often times we complain about life,and the negative things that happen to us, forgetting that everything happens for a purpose.
Yes!you may have lost a job,
lost loved ones in an accident,
gotten sacked based on backbiting and pressures in the office,
Gotten a rude shock,after realizing your fiance has another girlfriend,and has told you openly i want to marry her ,but not you
You may have lost that job contract
In all this,and whatever you are facing,just know that "all things to work together for good, to those who love God, and to those who are called according to His purpose. [Romans 8:28]
God is Good and perfect brethren.He never makes mistakes.
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